His name is shiny rotom. And I'm not sure why he wouldn't give it back. He's probably busy but I ask him did he get connection back at his house and I told him that I got connection back at my house before he came back online and he hasn't replied back at all. Then I send him a pm to him after he log off the site to tell him "if you don't give me back my togepi, I'm gonna put you on my blacklist".