I'll send ya one of mah fans, then! These things are amazing! They cool down almost any (normal-sized) room in a house/apartment! XD
Well, she thinks she's not ready... no parent ever is ready. It just takes time, practice, and support. But, if she needs it, I'm here, too! I'll do whatever I can to help, even if I don't know her~
Also, on a similar note, how are you feeling? Any better?