My mom is the same way.
Idk how to explain my dad. We dont really get along the best I guess. He just doesnt understand me and we are two completely different people. If he attended my high school at my age, I wouldnt hang out with him and probably avoid talking with him. I know he wants whats best for me and loves me, and I love him, its just that we aren't on the same page and he doesnt understand me or my interests. Plus, I dont think I can live up to some of his standards.
I live haha, but she has scared me so bad one time I cried in laughter/fear at the same time lol. Its not mean in any way, she is just having fun and I like that about her. :)