Ah, I guess you're a bit of a transgirl? Yeah, gender is over rated.
I worry way too much about the fact that i'm a 'girly girl' and don't always relate to those around me too. It only causes drama to worry about that stuff, though....(and if i really don't like being around drama from others, i should also learn to have more of a phobia of being dramatic MYSELF :/ seriously. drama from me myself if anything is even worse than if other people are being dramatic around me. i'm gonna keep telling myself that...)