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Yeh man i'm shy.....i wish i wasn't. It is getting better, so in some years i'm not shy anymore though....
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Are you shy?
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coachwhipneoship said:It's not always easy to up your confidence, though...
I should know. Well, it's odd actually. I believe I'm pretty confident. Yet I'm really shy. O.o;
I probably think I'm confident for slightly different reasons...like, I can go about my business and get things done on my own without talking to anyone unless absolutely necessary, and I no longer let people bother me.
The main thing behind shyness, I think, is fear of how the other person(s) will judge you. I guess, yeah, that kinda explains my case...
It sure is possible to overcome it, and I've come a long way from what I was like in elementary school. x.x
Having confidence means you really don't care all that much, if at all, how the other judges you.
The only times i really care if someone judges me well or not is at a job interview. Anything else, well, why SHOULD I care?
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It is good not to care about others judging you.
I just often find myself wanting to please and/or have the respect of certain people, if I particularly like them or know that I'm going to be dealing with them again in the future...or if I might need help from them. ^^' There aren't that many people whom I have good reasons to care what they think about me, but...there are some.
I just often find myself wanting to please and/or have the respect of certain people, if I particularly like them or know that I'm going to be dealing with them again in the future...or if I might need help from them. ^^' There aren't that many people whom I have good reasons to care what they think about me, but...there are some.
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Hmmm...I'm kind of shy, but not alot. At school I'm the one who makes sarcastic remarks out loud in class, but waiting for my mom to pick me up I just don't wanna talk to anyone. Now, I can swipe things from people without talking, so that doesn't count.
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Kim said:Having confidence means you really don't care all that much, if at all, how the other judges you.
The only times i really care if someone judges me well or not is at a job interview. Anything else, well, why SHOULD I care?
It is just that Kim, i can't let myself go, i have to think about what everybody else think about me. I am much better now, but i still can't let myself go