This is rather difficult to get real honest answers from just one person's view. First comes to play ones view of ones self, second comes other peoples views of said self. And then there's select views to actually pay notice to. Because if you listen to those that deliberatley put you down, you'll put yourself down and your self perception will be negative. But if you are smothered with people who tell you youre beautiful all the time, but they don't actually mean it, then both ways you'll have an innacurate reading. Because everybody is beautiful in some way, some people will see it and others wont. So really you're going to get a divide no matter how attractive you may be, and there will always be people who find you attractive even if they don't verbally say so. We need sincerity and honesty put delicatley. But aside from analysing too much and being a party pooper... I'm gonna try my best to accuratley rate myself and travel around the world by doing so :P
When I was younger I was bullied for looking like a geek and I hated everything about myself so I had no confidence. Low confidence is a turn off I learned. So when I grew up I decided to change a few things about myself and my image, and now when I look in the mirror I like what I see. So as long as I like what I see, then the odds are people will think the same. But that is just looks, I've always believed that I've had a more colourful and interesting personality than those who engage in insecure mind games and over competitivness, and I've got more confident in that because I notice when people call me 'weird' or 'strange', I look at them and see the same personality traits of people who bullied me back in school. And they may be saying that for their own negative reasons, like they might be trying to put me down because they're jealous or whatever. Then there is manners, common sense etc. So, my best attempt at rating how attractive I am would be:
My physique is natural, not much of a hunk or exercise freak. So maybe 5/10
Personality. Has its flaws, but what doesnt? 7/10
And finally, appearance. I like what I see, but it could be better so I'm improving it. 5 or 6/10
But then it depends on what you would compare to... another person may rate me much more or much less. We all probably either under rate or over rate ourselves.
I'll stop now before I get lynched! :P
