I personally don't mind it and I'd still be friends.
To me it means they don't want to rush into a relationship, which is a smart choice. If you get to know the person, you'll be able to see if they're really a good match for you.
Will you confess to her/him again after a long moment?
After I've given them time to think about it sure.
Is there really a difference, while you're getting to know someone? It's going to be pretty clear if they are just a friend or a significant other.
Playing into the long game, it'll suck to be in love with a good friend who doesn't feel the same way.
I'm confused about something here. How could you grow love for someone if you weren't already friends with them to begin with? Unless you mean one of those 'love at first sight' things, in which case I would argue that it would only be physical love, IMO. Again, in my opinion, I would say that love is never just physical or emotional/mental, it's the whole shebang.
What I mean is you already friend with the person but not quite long yet and you confess to him/her.
It means you need to persevere and develop a relationship that can eventually become love; because you've not done enough to reach that point yet.
I don't think that persevere is the right "tattic", I mean . . . I don't want to be invadent, I already asked her out, she gently refused . . . I've dealt with it.
(still like her tough)
You're right. op's explanation definitely points towards this being the best approach.I don't think that persevere is the right "tattic", I mean . . . I don't want to be invadent, I already asked her out, she gently refused . . . I've dealt with it.
(still like her tough)