No one does that. You can say they do, but they won't go for the first person they see. Plus, if they do, then nine times out of ten they'll be rejected anyway, so it makes no difference. On top of that, wanting a relationship because you feel lonely isn't pointless. A lot of people do it.
I believe in destiny too, but maybe someones destiny is to find the person they're meant to be with. Like I said, if everyone sat at home waiting for the right person to show up, then it would never happen. It's good to get out there and pursue people.
And why do you think this? What's wrong with attempting to do something instead of waiting for once?
And if there is someone for everyone, how are they going to go about finding each other if they just sit in their house all day?
I'm the opposite. I think that asking yourself all these questions will force you to over think things, and that's going to cause problems. In my opinion, it's better to just get in there and make it work instead of instantly saying no because your questions didn't add up.
I find both of those to be idiotic, lazy and desperate ways to find bad matches. On the second one you are relaying on random strangers in the internet to put you togather with someone based on the few good things you decide to tell them. On the first one you are actually seeing people, but for only a few minutes, and your seeing a lot of people. With this strategy your relationships are more likely to end in heart break, because honestly? All your doing is talking to a random stranger for ten minutes and then talking to another random stranger for another ten minutes. You can do this in any puplic location. And this way it's free (if you have to pay normaly) and you retrejected sooner. Much easier.
What movie?
Who said anything about staying in the house? Go about your life, do what you normaly do. Travel the world for All I care. Noone said anything about sitting around the house for the rest of your life, just waiting for the perfect person to just bust through your door.
I didn't literally mean staying inside your house, you know. Sorry if I came across that way, but I meant not going out to bars in search of women and stuff like that.
