I believe you made a little typo in your username there, when you said "I call myself gengae3528." I'm sure you meant to put an 'r' instead of 'e' but nevertheless welcome to the community. Glad to know you'd like to get off on a good start, and one best way to do that is making sure you've read the rules. Besides that, I hope you have fun while you're here and maybe I'll catch you around sometime.
I actually used to dislike Gengar, but when I finally got a chance to use it for contests in my Ruby game, I fell in love with the way it displayed itself out there. So, I agree Gengar is definitely a pretty cool Pokémon, both in looks, moveset and stats as well.