I've only had one relationship and thus only one ex. To be honest, when we broke up mutually, I thought we were going to be close friends and that's what he told me. Back then, I also told him that despite what had happened, he would always have a special part of my heart and looking back at that now, it was a naive thought. He's since moved on from that, and from my knowledge, I believe he has a girlfriend right now so it's obvious he has no feelings towards me, nor would I want him to; as long as he's happy, then that's all that matters. Quite frankly though, despite ending on somewhat good terms, seeing him in person this weekend made me aggravated only because he hasn't changed at all. We were both naive back then, and now that I've had 3 years to reflect, he's a douchebag. So that goes without saying that I would never consider getting back together with him nor do I still have feelings for him. I'd hate to compare the 2, but my ex and my current crush are vastly different in which the latter treats me with respect.