Krafty Quill
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So, I need some good advice, here's the deal...
I have got this cousin who's had a little bit of a rough time growing up, parent problems, moving from city to city, country to country and never really got the chance to settle down in one place. As a result, his grades sort of suffered and the different schooling systems messed him up. When he was 12, he failed an entry exam and had to go back to grade 2. O_O
Anyway, he is in his late teen years now and isn't really great at anything except singing, or so he thinks. Recently, my brother built a mini studio at home and we both help him record his demo CD, but quite frankly it sounds horrible. =O
Telling him that his singing is not on par, is an idea that flickers in my mind. On minute it seems right and the burden of lying and "wasting" lots of time writing lyrics and recording songs would be lifted but on the other hand, he doesn't have much to fall back on. It's almost cruel that singing is what he believes he does best. Other people have heard some of tracks and we all feel the same way but none of us have the heart to tell him. Such a bunch of cowards. -_-
So, we continue to waste our time and his by promoting the belief that he can really sing. He is literally his own biggest fan and his ears seemed to be tuned to some sort of eccentric frequency for him to listen to his own music and actually enjoy it. My question is, what would you do?
If we dropped him now and he left thinking he sucked at singing, there would be nothing else he could make a career of, legally anyway. He even once told me he was thinking about selling drugs, and has tried some himself. I'm afraid telling him the truth will push him off the edge! =O
Maybe I should post the link to one of his songs, and you guys tell me if he is that bad.
I have got this cousin who's had a little bit of a rough time growing up, parent problems, moving from city to city, country to country and never really got the chance to settle down in one place. As a result, his grades sort of suffered and the different schooling systems messed him up. When he was 12, he failed an entry exam and had to go back to grade 2. O_O
Anyway, he is in his late teen years now and isn't really great at anything except singing, or so he thinks. Recently, my brother built a mini studio at home and we both help him record his demo CD, but quite frankly it sounds horrible. =O
Telling him that his singing is not on par, is an idea that flickers in my mind. On minute it seems right and the burden of lying and "wasting" lots of time writing lyrics and recording songs would be lifted but on the other hand, he doesn't have much to fall back on. It's almost cruel that singing is what he believes he does best. Other people have heard some of tracks and we all feel the same way but none of us have the heart to tell him. Such a bunch of cowards. -_-
So, we continue to waste our time and his by promoting the belief that he can really sing. He is literally his own biggest fan and his ears seemed to be tuned to some sort of eccentric frequency for him to listen to his own music and actually enjoy it. My question is, what would you do?
If we dropped him now and he left thinking he sucked at singing, there would be nothing else he could make a career of, legally anyway. He even once told me he was thinking about selling drugs, and has tried some himself. I'm afraid telling him the truth will push him off the edge! =O
Maybe I should post the link to one of his songs, and you guys tell me if he is that bad.