Looks VS Personality...which is most important?

[Too-Angel]

I look for personallities to a person. I don't look to the person's neither
attractive or not. We all are the same, not personallities. There are some changes containing personallities to other people. Not all of us are all the same. For myself, I look for the personallity of this person.

 

[Soph]

is anyone going to offer an opinion on what i said before too-angel posted?

 

[latiosspud]

:\ Online love isn't quite safe at all.

 

[Soph]

that wasnt the issue!!!!!!!!!! the issue was about how it contradics the popular opinion of looks sparking the initial attraction!

 

[invinible]

I went with personity since most I don't want somebody mean hearted. Now a days, looks can be completely changed.

 

[latiosspud]

that wasnt the issue!!!!!!!!!! the issue was about how it contradics the popular opinion of looks sparking the initial attraction!

:\ But it doesn't...it's unsafe too.

 

[Soph]

look all i want is a discussion on a different side of this topic. it can be unsafe but it can be perfectly okay too. stop getting off topic! i was offering a new way to look at this topic now would some on offwen an honest opnioon instead of a judgmental remark!

 

[22sa]

Internet relations rely solely on the mind, people can use lies much easier, so latiosspud has a good point about internet relations not being safe at all.

 

[Soph]

*looks frustarted* WELL IM TALKING ABOUT THE SAFE ONES THEN! far OUT all i said was that love over the internet is one form that does not rely on looks, therefore it contradicts the statemntt that love is mainly based on looks. THAT is the topic, not how safe it is!

 

[Gengar]

I go with Personality ; but in my school looks matter :( I dont like that. I cant help that im "ugly". >.<;; But , I know a girl in one of my classes that I said "Gosh , Im ugly!" She just said "Who?" I said "Me.." She said "I know."


NOT FAIR! >.<; Not fair at all. Some people are very bitter and sweet , like me for example! Im honest , and well known. But Im not popular! Im just "cool". My school is stupid , that's my say. If someone hates me because THEY thing im ugly then they aint a very good friend!


Another thing , I find myself sweet , and sometimes a bit nasty on the hand , but hey , Im honest. I can give you 1 girl name I like. Emily (She's the one who said Im ugly. :( ) Im not ugly. I know she know's that.



Can anyone help me with above?

 

[22sa]

*looks frustarted* WELL IM TALKING ABOUT THE SAFE ONES THEN! far OUT all i said was that love over the internet is one form that does not rely on looks, therefore it contradicts the statemntt that love is mainly based on looks. THAT is the topic, not how safe it is!

Who said love is mainly based on looks? lol. Safe ones? I don't know, I mean you can always phone each other anyways...

(IRL) Let's see... Looks to attract and please your partner (and yourself sort of), personality to keep the relationship going, and a brain to actually have something to talk about.

 

[DragonTrainer]

All's I can say Gengar is, just you wait, in some years, you will be the only good looking one. and everybody else will be oogly.

Soph, I don't think that it is exactly online love is save, because for all you know, the person you are in "love" with, is just some perverted old guy.But I won't bring that up.

 

[Frostweaver]

I go with Personality ; but in my school looks matter :( I dont like that. I cant help that im "ugly". >.<;; But , I know a girl in one of my classes that I said "Gosh , Im ugly!" She just said "Who?" I said "Me.." She said "I know."


NOT FAIR! >.<; Not fair at all. Some people are very bitter and sweet , like me for example! Im honest , and well known. But Im not popular! Im just "cool". My school is stupid , that's my say. If someone hates me because THEY thing im ugly then they aint a very good friend!


Another thing , I find myself sweet , and sometimes a bit nasty on the hand , but hey , Im honest. I can give you 1 girl name I like. Emily (She's the one who said Im ugly. :( ) Im not ugly. I know she know's that.



Can anyone help me with above?

Congratulation Gengar! You're finally out of the matrix and into the world!

Welcome to reality...

 

[latiosspud]

I go with Personality ; but in my school looks matter :( I dont like that. I cant help that im "ugly". >.<;; But , I know a girl in one of my classes that I said "Gosh , Im ugly!" She just said "Who?" I said "Me.." She said "I know."


NOT FAIR! >.<; Not fair at all. Some people are very bitter and sweet , like me for example! Im honest , and well known. But Im not popular! Im just "cool". My school is stupid , that's my say. If someone hates me because THEY thing im ugly then they aint a very good friend!


Another thing , I find myself sweet , and sometimes a bit nasty on the hand , but hey , Im honest. I can give you 1 girl name I like. Emily (She's the one who said Im ugly. :( ) Im not ugly. I know she know's that.



Can anyone help me with above?

Is the girl you like good-looking? Cause if she is, you're being very hypocritical.

 

[22sa]

I go with Personality ; but in my school looks matter :( I dont like that. I cant help that im "ugly". >.<;; But , I know a girl in one of my classes that I said "Gosh , Im ugly!" She just said "Who?" I said "Me.." She said "I know."

What did you expect, after you called yourself ugly? They probly think it's just for attention.

Are you sure you can't help that you're ugly by the way? What about people with ugly personalities and feel they can't change? Anyway, if you are really good inside, than your outside would be covered by your inside, in a way.

NOT FAIR! >.<; Not fair at all. Some people are very bitter and sweet , like me for example! Im honest , and well known. But Im not popular! Im just "cool". My school is stupid , that's my say. If someone hates me because THEY thing im ugly then they aint a very good friend!

Being cool is pretty good, but you know, there's price to everything. And being cool has it's price.

Another thing , I find myself sweet , and sometimes a bit nasty on the hand , but hey , Im honest. I can give you 1 girl name I like. Emily (She's the one who said Im ugly. :( ) Im not ugly. I know she know's that.



Can anyone help me with above?

 

[Gengar]

Is the girl you like good-looking? Cause if she is, you're being very hypocritical.

First of all what is hypocritical? Another thing , yeah she's good looking. 0.o()

 

[Frostweaver]

hypocritical: to be a hypocrite. A hypocrite is a person who contradicts himself (usually in terms of his/her/its actions and beliefs).

and since you said "yes she's good looking" you've just got yourself a "Hypocrite Stamp" from me.

 

[latiosspud]

First of all what is hypocritical? Another thing , yeah she's good looking. 0.o()

You see, right there...you said you think it's wrong to like someone for how they look... :\

 

[Frostweaver]

Whoa...look how long a conversation about looks vs. personality can get! With nothing offtopic...that's pretty amazing!

True, it is kind of stupid to like someone because of how they look. It's mostly personality but matters, but there are just some people that care more about looks... u_u which isn't fair, because a person not very good looking could be the most beautiful person in the inside. But they're not given a chance, you know why.

I don't really complain or ask or care much about my looks, but as a normal person living in this world I do care about myself -_- but what I try the most is to be a nice person. I'm not an "ugly" person, but I would never just go around saying I look good. I usually say I look bad to my mother...it sounds better than saying I look good...but my mom disagrees with me when I say I look bad u_u

And no, it's not both or nothing latiosspud. It's mostly a little bit of each, but personality is always better than looks. I really wouldn't want someone that scared me with looks, and I can't say I wouldn't mind, I'm tryin' to be sincere here, but it would be worse if the person annoyed me to death.

Did I make myself clear? Probably not. XD I have a strange feeling I went like "yes...but yes...but no....but no....but yes but no" and so on XP

well it's perfectly clear for me...

looks spark interest to start a new friendship, while personality is the true object behind the scene to start the friendship and to push it beyond its limitless limit (oxymoron but you know what i mean... hopefully)

and i just have to hate those people who just call themselve "i'm pretty"... very arrogant and a stuck-up those ppl are... especially those one who have no shame to even call themselve " oh i know... i'm such a 'sexy' beast". (i hate *all* ppl who call themselve by that if it's by their own will) Ignorant fools like that care a lot about looks. >_<

 

[Gengar]

I dont think looks is EVERYTHING , it's not! It's barley anything in my book. (Sacrifice : Charnel *I didnt know you could read*) Well , the reason I like Emily is cause' she's energetic' etc...