Belldandy
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I'm very pro-chastity, and I have a lot of perhaps old morals and views about this stuff.
First, I personally wouldn't just date. I would need to know the person first and actually learn about them before just deciding after three shakes and a movie that we were an "item."
That said, I wouldn't "item"ize myself with anyone I didn't plan to be with for a very long time, hopefully forever.
I've had two relationships, both serious. My first ended after two or three years of pretty good times and an addtional three of abusive hell. Out of necessity, I had to leave that relationship, and it scars me to this day. I have a nightmare or two a month about my ex.
My current man is so motivated and optimistic and positive. He's ambitious and educated, charming, sweet, considerate and he has his head and heart in the right place. We have similar dreams; we want to live in the same area; and we both have overcome a lot of similar challenges. We even talk the same and have the same expressions, even though he was born and raised in a city two hours away and I didn't meet him until last June.
In any case, he's my sweetpea, and I expect this one to go a lot smoother than the last relationship. He has good parents, too, so I know he was raised right (and you can see it!)
First, I personally wouldn't just date. I would need to know the person first and actually learn about them before just deciding after three shakes and a movie that we were an "item."
That said, I wouldn't "item"ize myself with anyone I didn't plan to be with for a very long time, hopefully forever.
I've had two relationships, both serious. My first ended after two or three years of pretty good times and an addtional three of abusive hell. Out of necessity, I had to leave that relationship, and it scars me to this day. I have a nightmare or two a month about my ex.
My current man is so motivated and optimistic and positive. He's ambitious and educated, charming, sweet, considerate and he has his head and heart in the right place. We have similar dreams; we want to live in the same area; and we both have overcome a lot of similar challenges. We even talk the same and have the same expressions, even though he was born and raised in a city two hours away and I didn't meet him until last June.
In any case, he's my sweetpea, and I expect this one to go a lot smoother than the last relationship. He has good parents, too, so I know he was raised right (and you can see it!)