Both of my parents smoked when I was young. My dad quit so early, though, that I only have very vague memories of ever seeing him with a ciggarette in his mouth.
My mom still smokes to this day. But before I originally moved out of the house, she confined her smoking to outside. Now, after I've moved back home, she's made it a habit of doing it only in her room - and always leaves that door shut whether she's in there or not.
I think that smoking around children is a very dumb thing to do - but what's even more enraging is when a woman is pregnant, and she still continues to smoke. Sadly, I have a friend who does this, and she's been a smoker since she was 10 years old! Supposedly the doctor told her that it would be too stressful on the baby if she were to quit smoking during the pregnancy.. and what angers me more is that in addition to smoking, she said she doesn't plan on breastfeeding either.. and I think that's just a recipe for a very malnutritioned newborn.
I've been around smokers my whole life, and unfortunately most of the friends I grew up with ended up being smokers - one reason why I moved back into my parents house. I can't stand being around the stuff. And when I am around them and they must smoke, I go to another room, or they do, or they keep it out the window or somesuch.
I don't think it's one bit fair for non-smokers to be around the stuff, though. We've chosen to protect our lungs, and exposing us to the secondhand smoke isn't the least bit fair.
Luckily, my state has passed a banned smoking law. It's illegal to smoke in a public place, such as restaurants. Smoking isn't even allowed in bars here anymore.
Much to the dismay of many of my customers.. (I work at a truck stop).
It makes it so much nicer to go out to eat. ^_^