A guy that rides my bus in the mornings is a teen father. The baby itself is not born yet, though the pregnancy tests have been proved positive. He is actually excited about it. In my middle school, there was a girl in my P.E. class that was also a teen mom. I never actually completely understood their circumstances, other than that they were simply engaged in sexual activity with their boy/girlfriend. From what I was told, they were not intentionally trying to get a child. I don't think young girls want to have kids, I mean who would?
And let's be realistic here. Teens have been getting pregnant since the beginning of time. Our condemnation of it isn't going to change a thing, and I find it a complete waste of time. Instead, we should be seeking ways to both discourage people from becoming parents at such a young age, while at the same time helping those who do.
If we're talking about the beginning of time, the life expectancies were shorter and so people had babies when they were still in their teens, since that was basically the standard. This goes hand in hand with how early they got married as well. It's not at all like today's society, where people are expected to live to at least 70 or so (US) while back then, people barely lived past 30 (going by the Middle Ages).
You can discourage people all you want, people aren't going to listen. Can you believe how many videos I had to watch, from middle through high school, just about safe sex and abstinence? They're all rinse and repeat, real-life examples, and overall teens don't care. It's not that they want have kids, it's that they want to have sex. This goes with the media, since the media portrays a lot of the negative habits of standard human society, such as sex, drinking, smoking, etc., as an awesome thing to do and you basically have to do it due to peer pressure or another.
To be honest, I don't care if people do these things. It's that they have to be willing to take responsibility as well as the consequences for their actions. Having sex is a decision, as Toujours said, and they have to accept that they made the choice. They took the risk, and they lost the coin toss. That is essentially they way to discourage, but by then it's just too late.
Unfortunately, many teen males and females do not have the good fortune of living in [stable family] situations and do not see much of a future for themselves. Most young people see little employment opportunity around them and will probably face a life of low economic status, ever-present racism, and inadequate opportunities for quality education. . . . Under such conditions, it is no wonder that some young people, instead of becoming industrious and hopeful, become sexually intimate for a short-term sense of comfort, and ultimately become profoundly fatalistic.
This relates to understanding circumstances, since we really can't know, which goes with what you said about judging people and all. We shouldn't to begin with.
Should we help them because they made that choice? I'd be pressed to say that what you should. All people have the right to live. People make bad choices, but that doesn't take away their title as human beings. Yes, they should have support. That support is given by the government in terms of welfare. Conversely, one step up the government made to stop these pregnancies was to make welfare harder to obtain, which was very stupid on their part since it only increases the poverty. Being a parent is not easy, and that's a big excuse for teens being unemployed as parents, this occurring most often in the single mothers. Better employment means going back to finishing high school and hoping for a degree in college, right? But these teens are parents, meaning that they simply don't have the time unless their parent/guardian is willing to help raise the baby. And again, this is all circumstantial.