Well, there are such things as white lies, that I believe in some situations are more polite and tactful, even though they're not necessary and technically are lies. Like when someone gets you something for your birthday, and ask you if you like it, you tell them "Yes, I love it! Thank you so much!" Even if it's the most disgusting thing you've ever seen in your entire life. I think that kind of lie is safe, even though it definitely depends on the situation.
Other than that, though, I always pride myself in being honest with myself and everyone around me. It makes life simpler.
In a situation like that, I'm sure whoever decided to put a family's safety in front of their own would have known the consequences of such actions before even doing it. So, to say the least, I would have protected those people and kept my word to them. Meaning, yes, I would lie to the officer and protect the lives of these innocent people. That's what I would consider being a lie of one's protection rather than a selfish demand as I mentioned earlier.Like, if you were hiding Jews underneath your floor boards of your home in Germany during and prior to the Second World War. If an officer came into your home would you risk your own safety by telling them that you were not housing Jews? Or would you get rid of your own anxiety of well-being, and comply by telling them that you were housing a Jewish family?
You should always tell the truth unless it's a small lie where the truth would do nothing but hurt somebody feelings. Unless of course you're lying to save somebody like in the Jew scenario.
I disagree completely. I lost a mother this morning because she found out the truth.
Well, no. I mean, to say so takes extreme ignorance to how the world works.
Let's do this for example.
Man: HEY! I'M GAY!
Saudi Arabian Government: Oh? Thanks for telling the truth. *shoots in face*
Man: I'm so free! I told the truth and I get shot! YAY!
(Saudi Arabia is not the only country)
I disagree completely. I lost a mother this morning because she found out the truth.
I am not really one to talk, because my mom could care less if I am gay. But, I know it is a difficult situation to have a parent feel less about their child over one attribute. All I can say is that when I came out I felt a sickness in my stomach for a couple months, and then they started to die down completely in a few months. But, prior to telling the truth I was suppressing my own happiness. So, in short term, no it did not feel like I was set free, but in the long term, it definitely did.
BTW everyone, I just used the WWII example because of something outlandish I heard form Christine O'Donnell...as usual. She said that if she had a Jewish family hiding beneath the floor boards, she would not lie to the Nazis, b/c lying is disrespectful, and that God would find a way to save both her and the family. lol.
Could you please explain? And if it happens to be something like her finding out a sexuality or religion she should get over it and love you anyways.
True but not screaming it out and telling random people isn't lying. And of course in that case if somebody asked you it would be quite alright to lie.
You're living a lie, especially in their culture where you are expected to get married and have kids.
Sort of unique situation here; hard to explain and irrelevant to the thread prompt (willing, but it'd be nonconducive)--however, it only proves that beneficial lying is subjective for different cases.
True but it's better than dying. You could always leave or at least try to escape to a 1st world country.
I am not really one to talk, because my mom could care less if I am gay.