Lightning I +1 your reply also :P so copying it :P
Graphics: Apart from Pokemon I'm a home console RPG kinda guy, and I kinda let the more anime style RPGs (FF, Tales series, Chrono Trigger) fly past without taking a look, so my RPG expirences are more the Elder Scrolls series, Fallout 3 and Vegas, the Dragon Age series, etc. Skyrim is one of the most beautiful looking games I've ever played, so Skyrim wins this one.
Story A lot of the story in these RPG's is missing ( I feel anyway), however Dragon Age (2 more so then Origins) had me attached to every companion, it invoked me to hate Anders and Carver, love drinking with Isabella and Varric and fall in virtual love with that Elven Blood Mage (Merril). I had a rivalry with a Tevinter elf and it felt like every decision I made mattered.
Gameplay I've yet to be overawed by the gameplay in an RPG, I think my favorite would be Paper Mario. The one that kicked my 3rd favourite franchise in gaming off (behind Pokemon and Dragon Age.) I don't quite get my appeal, I love the badge system, its customizing Mario to suit your play style ! I love companions, so thats why it pips Skyrim and Fallout: NV, but I also love mixing it up in combat, not feeling rehearsed, so it beats both Mass Effect and Dragon Age on that front.
Music-I'm torn between Pokemon HG/SS and Skyrim. I normally mute games with no talking or when subtitles are available, however I love these two so much. Just awesome, non irratating OST's.
Overall-Dragon Age 2-Simply the character and story are the best out of them all ! Sure the fighting is a bit rubbish, but everything else makes up for it. DA2 is a black sheep amongst RPG's but one I really enjoy. I want the PC version so I can LP it soo bad !