Melody
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- Age 35
- Cuddling those close to me
- Seen Mar 4, 2018
I have to say that if it weren't for the fact that there really is a sense of community here, that I wouldn't keep coming back. I know I keep trying to leave every time I feel like the drama level exceeds my tolerances, but despite all the ridiculous drama and past poor experiences, I keep coming back.
There's definitely still a lot of cliquey-ness that happens around on PC; just not as much on the forum proper. At the end of the day we really all are human, and that as much drives the few things one might complain about on the community as the way we came up, grew and prospered does.
I do have a few friends still left who I can trust to at least be fair and open minded here on PC though...and I do pick up a few new ones as I shed the old throughout my itinerary of coming and going. Not that I plan any of that, but it does happen, and it is really a cycle that I think only works largely because despite things repelling me; the net pull of the community here on PC still feels a lot more close, a lot more welcoming and overall a lot more accepting than most places.
Coming from reddit, I can assert to the fact that you really don't often find nearly the warm and welcoming communities as often. Even places like /r/Dogecoin and /r/mylittlepony don't even begin to compare to PC. Nostalgia also plays a part in this; but that same nostalgia also has a dark side, at least for me. If it wasn't already blindingly apparent, I tend to be rather tough on myself when it comes to PC. Not to mention that it's extremely difficult to maintain my new self, when there's so much of my past invested here. It's definitely something I struggle with, my dark side to all the nostalgia and good feelings I have about PC. x3
There's definitely still a lot of cliquey-ness that happens around on PC; just not as much on the forum proper. At the end of the day we really all are human, and that as much drives the few things one might complain about on the community as the way we came up, grew and prospered does.
I do have a few friends still left who I can trust to at least be fair and open minded here on PC though...and I do pick up a few new ones as I shed the old throughout my itinerary of coming and going. Not that I plan any of that, but it does happen, and it is really a cycle that I think only works largely because despite things repelling me; the net pull of the community here on PC still feels a lot more close, a lot more welcoming and overall a lot more accepting than most places.
Coming from reddit, I can assert to the fact that you really don't often find nearly the warm and welcoming communities as often. Even places like /r/Dogecoin and /r/mylittlepony don't even begin to compare to PC. Nostalgia also plays a part in this; but that same nostalgia also has a dark side, at least for me. If it wasn't already blindingly apparent, I tend to be rather tough on myself when it comes to PC. Not to mention that it's extremely difficult to maintain my new self, when there's so much of my past invested here. It's definitely something I struggle with, my dark side to all the nostalgia and good feelings I have about PC. x3