Alley Cat

Just trust him man. It's all you really can do. I wouldn't say to break up with him because things might happen with him and his best friend. But I don't know him obviously so idk how they are together. =/

Well, that's nice to know at least. Good luck with that man. :x

Nah, you weren't being an idiot. What's going on?

:( *hugs*

What promise was that?

Ah. Yeah that doesn't sound like great reasoning tbh, but I won't comment too much there. How are you taking it?

Are you sure you're not letting him get you down? Because to me that sounds like you're using alcohol to stay happy. Or maybe I just worry too much lol

Well that's an awesome attitude to have :) You know what this calls for? Random hookups! :P

/skips over vm and gets to the important part

Wait, breaking up? What happened man? Don't tell me if you don't want to but if you wanna talk about it my VMs or PMs or Msn or whatever are open.

Maybe that's a good thing sometimes. :3 lol.

Aww no that sucks I'm so sorry! Are you OK?

That reminds me, because I was stalking reading a conversation between you and Razor Leaf, I realised I never thanked you for your input into my problem in the Post Your Problem's Thread.
As it happens, I couldn't stop myself talking to him, and while he already knew some of the story, it was nice for me to just let it out and tell him everything that was on my mind.

So, just a thanks for your help. While I'm still "obsessed" as it where, I feel like a weight is off my shoulders because I dont feel as akward talking too him.

Haha well that's what Friday nights are for. If you're getting drunk why are you on PokeCommunity? You should be out partying or something lol

Not much, enjoying your forum life?

That's delightful. But lol, I love how you have a pair of shoes for just being lazy with. I only have one casual pair which have to last me forever. And oh man I can imagine. I feel so pathetic being the little English kid who complains about heat which is like, half of what you have haha. And what did you do to get kicked off that bus?

Oh right, yeah, that's a fair distance then. How did you get to meet him from that far away? And that sucks. I still can't understand how it is, in the time that we are in, that people can still be intolerant of the homosexual. It's not even that unusual anymore and it's not harming anyone. It's great that you aren't afraid of them though. You hear all this news about people getting beaten up or whatever for their sexuality and it's just sickening. I know I'd be worried if someone threatened me, although I'm not such a trusting person so that might be just me lol. And yeah I think you might have to just concede there; you don't want a stick situation with an already unsure family, after all. And damn right @ the fighting for him part man. Wouldn't have it any other way myself, although I've never actually been in a proper fight before. I have this weird way of staying on most people's good sides even if I don't at all like them, lol, and it generally works to my advantage.

The thing I don't like about the city is how rough it can be sometimes. It's near impossible to walk city streets without having to be paranoid about people trying to steal from you or something like that, even if it doesn't happen so much in reality. But it sounds like you two have a really nice time when you're together and oh my god it is so sweet that he does all that artsy stuff for you, haha. Sounds a pretty artistic person in general, which is cool. It's something that's always run in my family so I like hearing about other people who are good with it and stuff like that.

Yeah, from what I can gather American parties can get way out of hand sometimes, much more so than English ones although I've seen some bad enough stuff here. I was at some girl's one once which one of my mates gatecrashed, got into a fight with her dad, got into a fight with a police officer, kicked him in the balls, ran through a fence into someone else's garden and then passed out in a flower bed lmao. It was genius although in hindsight it was also really, really stupid on the gatecrasher's part. He ended up arrested but wasn't sentenced or anything since he hadn't made any really legitimate offenses. When you say smoking, do you mean cigarettes or weed and etc? I always get confused over that kinda stuff.

Sounds like the police are pretty tight over there. Really here you might get arrested but it's unlikely as long as you're not causing any real trouble; England is just really slack with its laws about alcohol. I've never been caught in public with weed on me though, mainly because I rarely do it, although there have been the occasional times at parties or whatever. Nice narrow escape you had there too, lol. I'm not even sure on exactly what the weed laws here are other than if you have over x amount on you at any one point you can be arrested for that on the assumption that you're dealing lol. That happened at a bonfire to the same friend I was talking about earlier in this VM. He had some sort of insane amount of weed on him and got done for that, though he was only sharing it and not dealing it but it was still enough.

Oh, what's been going on there? And later man, have a good time.

Hello Alley Cat :) it's been a few days, how be you?

Oh right. Mine doesn't have one either, but a half-hour's bus ride away is a small-ish city which is like one of the gay capitals of the world or something like that so they make a really big deal of it. But they're charging for attendance now which I personally think is bollocks. You shouldn't be charged to support your sexuality. I've never heard of a full LGBT Pride though, but I can imagine that would be even more fun. Are you and your boyfriend going to be there?

Yeah, I suppose I get you. When you go to run-down places it must really stand out though. I just live in a standard, flat town lol. It's so nice that you can find something beautiful about every place! I can do that too, and it's actually quite useful for me since I'm an art student and a lot of that involves photography so I can literally get something nice more or less wherever I am. I don't know if I'd prefer somewhere like where you live to a city. The idea of living somewhere like London always seemed so attractive to me and there is so much to do, but it'd be expensive as hell. And oh man California parties sound incredible. I go to my fair share over here but never massive things like that; no-one really has the money or the space, but there's always plenty of alcohol to make up for it haha.

It may have been the little 'u' detail which made me think you were English then. I don't mind how people spell stuff as long as it's a valid spelling for wherever they like, like 'color' for example. And yeah my language skills are far from good but I try my best with grammar and stuff when I'm posting around unless I'm in a real hurry or whatever. You should see me drunk, though. On Msn I slack with grammar a bit by dropping capitals and apostrophes but I still try to spell correctly.

Ok mate, see you later. ^^

Ah, that's pretty cool that you're publicly supporting your sexuality like that. Do you have like, Gay Pride over there? Idk if you have it and call it something else but it's a small sort of festival thing we have over here every year I think where a load of people basically go and support gay rights and it's actually a lot of fun. I went once even though I'm straight and had a great time, haha.

Mountains are awesome in general though! Must be at least pretty, right?

I'm not completely sure really, I'd have said it was just in the way you talk. From your posts in the picture thread I guess you look like someone I know irl so I guess I may just have them stuck in my head when I see you post. *shrug*

Lol, it's fine. I like good VM conversations. ^^

Oh very nice, what did you get him? And oh right. Where do you live? For some reason, I was under the impression that you were English. Not quite sure why.

Wow, that's unfortunate. It hasn't effected me all that much other than the loss of one of my friends last September, but I know that sucked so idk what it could have been like for you.

I'm not too bad. In hospital recovering from some surgery I had done just yesterday lol. You?