Post was fixed via phone (so my grammar or spelling might suck).
Lu you need to chill out a bit and have some back up plans for when things are not going too smooth. In the case of missing RPers just wait for a little then move on before you lose more if that is what your afraid of. I've seen RPs with much more rocky starts than this one. Just sit back, breathe, reassess the situation, and come up with a new game plan. The RP is far from being a mess right now but your not going to help things if you can't handle a little issue here and there and work around them.