Yeah, I've given up on specific gender unless it's something stupid like Ralts. Pain in the behind passing moves but meh. Seriously though, I've gone through 3 boxes of Chinchou so far and out of 2 decent ones with the right nature, they both had Illuminate. /cuts
Funny thing about Ralts...I was trying to get an adamant male and I ended up getting adamant female with near perfect IVs. Ai, luck.