1. You were arrogant for using an ad hominem at someone. You're still concealing this fact by claiming this and that and the other, so perhaps you do not own up as well to your mistakes as you may feel.
2. It's still an ad hominem. You were saying that he was mentally unsound because of "paranoia", which, as I present in point 3, I still fail to see. Also, civility in one post does not imply civility in another. Did you not also notice that I did not call that post out as uncivil? If anything your behaviour is terribly inconsistent.
3. This is a very real problem that some people face. Because of the propogation of false issues like Rape Culture it is affecting some women's approaches towards men. Do not claim that someone else's problems
Indeed, this indicates hypocrisy on your part - you are marginalizing Kanzler's issues (that he made clear in his posts that it is actually affecting his relationships with people) but you chant about how we cannot understand how minorities are marginalized.
I do not make truces. I am a friend with no one. I only state what I believe is the truth. If you are a fool, then I will remind you that you are a fool. I am willing to stand down if you prove me wrong, but you have failed to do so yet. I'm sorry that you feel like I am attacking you, but I do not tolerate this kind of childish behaviour. I have called others out on it and I will call you out as well. Perhaps it is you being extremely defensive about the issue at hand.
Feel free to report every single one of my posts that make you feel like you are being attacked. If the mods agree, so be it. But I have said little to actually attack you, while you have been on the defensive against not just me but other members on the forum repeatedly.
In the threads, I have a right to disagree with your opinion and your arrogant attitude towards it as well as other members makes you more of a target of debate with everyone, not just myself. Perhaps people are picking your posts because you are claiming things based on your strong emotions and your defensive attitude and are more inclined to debate them as opposed to the posts that appear to be "matter of fact".