Personally, I think things are going as so...
:: Satoshi x Kasumi in JAPAN ::
For starters, Kasumi x Satoshi is not as big in Japan. The coupling does have fans, websites, fanart, etc. but it's still not that big. About 80% of the AAML hints in the English version were dub added. Especially in the episode "Gotta Catch you later."
When Kasumi is having flashbacks, they originally featured Kasumi. NOT Kasumi x Satoshi. Why did 4Kids change these flashbacks? Because they bow to AAML fans. Don't believe me? Then don't get me started. There are countless hints that 4Kids added for no reason!
Another thing to add is Haruka and Masato's popularity. The two have become incredibly popular in Japan! Kasumi on the other hand? Well she just...isn't. I know people will flame me and say "Misty is so popular! Blah blah blah! May Suks!!!11." But I don't care. If you wish to ignore the truth, then so be it. But I'm just stating a fact. If Kasumi was really loved, I highly doubt they would have left her during Houen....~.~;
Now everyone, here's some food for thought! When AAML hints are dropped in the original Japanese version, they come from Kasumi. Why? Because Kasumi loves Satoshi. We all already knew that. Satoshi however, shows no TRUE interest in her. He shows no interest in ANY girl. Not Haruka, not Latias, not anyone. With that said, is it ok if we look over this scene?
Misty: Now I really know how you feel about me Ash Ketchum.
Well...what happened? He was sad, but he didn't beg her to stay. I think Kasumi came to her senses and realized "I love you very much Ash, but you only think of me as a close friend." Or...maybe it was just me. But it really sounded that way people. I mean, Satoshi never brought her up after he got to Houen! If he loved her, I'm sure we would have got some scenes from him. But guess what? We didn't. Instead, we saw from Kasumi's point of view because she's the only one who's doing the loving.
Sorry to say this, but face it people. AAML is really a one sided relationship. Kasumi loves Satoshi, but he won't return her love. He won't return anyone's love. Whenever he was worried about Kasumi, that wasn't a hint. If it was, then it is when he's worried about Haruka in the bulbasaur episode. I mean...really people. ~.~; You take hints and say "That's a hint!! =D" But when someone else uses the same thing for their ship, you say "Shut up you frickin loser!! Misty belongs with Ash!!"
So in conclusion, I feel AAML is pretty dead in Japan. People like it, but I think most of it's fandom has disappeared/died down. In it's place, comes Haruka.
:: Ash x Misty in the DUB ::
It's one thing to say "AAML has died in Japan." But it's another thing to make that comment when it comes to the dub.
Lets face it people. AAML is far from dead in the English version. The dub is constantly adding hints that weren't there, making up songs, causing annoying rumors, etc. Also, lets not forget the bratty Pokeshippers that have made me (and many others) hate Pokeshipping.
I'm not saying all Pokeshippers are annoying, but in every batch, you always get the aggressive, bratty, stuck up, sore loser, who won't admit they're wrong. Instead, they just keep preaching how Ash and Misty belong together and make up false rumors. In a way, it makes me feel sick.
Japanese fans really don't do that people. They don't get on a BBS and start making up incredibly lame rumors that only 11 yr. old N00bs would believe. They also don't snap your head off if you don't support AAML. Sure, a few do, but it's more often seen on English speaking boards. Especially with younger Pokemon fans or ones that don't have access to the Japanese news. It's them who make up these stupid rumors about -- "Ash and Misty will kiss! Blah blah blah." Doesn't everyone else remember the Serebii rumor? Supposely in the 4th movie, Serebii takes the kids to the future and we see Ash and Misty married. Now...did that happen? Ha! Ya right. Not even close! So stop believing this kissing/married at the end of pokemon one. It was just made up by some stupid kid.
*sighs* Ok, sorry for flamming, but I had to get it out. Honestly, AAML isn't close dead in the English version, but in the Japanese version is pretty much is. It's just some of these English Pokeshippers that annoy the heck outta me. You know who I'm talking about....
Also for the record, I. Do. Not. Hate. Kasumi (Misty). Infact, my name IS Kasumi. ~.~; So don't start pointing fingers.