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It's something I think we all need to work on. I think it is pretty rude to ignore others when they're trying to talk to you, for whatever reason.
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TwilightBlade;bt69397 said:Within 5 days, I kid you not, my visitor messages are back up to the 80s or 90s. I imagine most staff members are in my same situation, RIGHT???
TwilightBlade;bt69397 said:"I know this won't change anything but if any of you staff are reading this (most importantly the H-staff) go make your VMs public, and the next time somebody gives you a VM, go reply"
" if you browse their VMs they're constantly talking to other people when the person they ignored actually had a good conversation starter "
I use the Control Panel to respond to VMs. The User CP shows the 5 most recent VMs. I respond to these. The members respond almost immediately. So, I appear to be constantly talking to these same members while ignoring the 6th, 7th, 8th etc members. Any messages from last month (e.g. your VM from July!) and beyond are basically out of my reach. :P
When I do get around to bulldozing through my currently NINETY FIVE pending visitor messages, I may take a few HOURS to finish. I genuinely try to respond in a creative way in order to keep the discussion going. ^^;
Within 5 days, I kid you not, my visitor messages are back up to the 80s or 90s. I imagine most staff members are in my same situation, RIGHT???
Hopefully that shed some insight into how things are operating on the other side of the fence. Usually, you aren't being ignored. :B Please don't assume the worst in people. :3c