You need to loosen up. You are always so negative. It can't be helping your self esteem.
You know, I'd hate to say this, but I kinda agree with her. This
is a Pokemon forum. And it's the Fanfiction Lounge, no doubt. You want romantic advice, I think you'd better go elsewhere for it. Like MySpace (although possibly not there, either -- that place be shady).
I mean, honestly, while, yes, geeks can mate quite successfully, the fact of the matter is,
we're geeks. Self-proclaimed, no less, if you've been paying attention to the past page. I don't think you can find a more socially awkward crowd than the geeks without a psychological diagnosis. This is like showing a blind guy a photo of Pamela Anderson and asking him to describe what he sees.
And to tell you the truth, the negativity is fairly justified. I know I'm no mod, but usually, you arrange pairings and that sort of stuff via profiles and PMs. Astinus didn't use a thread to arrange her family. Neither did I concerning my own pairing and family. You just don't because, bluntly put, no one outside whoever you're forging pacts with are at all interested in seeing who's forging a family with who as it happens. (Maybe after for comedic value, especially if there's going to be incest involved and plenty of crack, but otherwise, not really, no.) Trust me on this one. I say it bluntly, but I'm being honest with you here. And we certainly don't care to know how long you've been shaving or, for that matter,
what you've been shaving. Sure, facial hair doesn't seem like that big of a deal, but if I went into incredible detail about how I shave my legs, I don't think you'd be completely cool about that, either.
Sure, the FFL has its fair share of off-topic moments, but this is kinda a private situation, where you kinda shut out everyone from the thread. What are we supposed to be talking about while you discuss getting girls and arrange families within your small group over there?
She is a female.
We are guys.
Makes sense that she wouldn't get us.
You'll be surprised, young grasshopper. The way you've just carried out your conversation is exactly like the conversations I've heard from girls. I should know. I go to an all-girls' school. And yes, you talk about girls and facial hair the way they talk about boys and leg hair in the bathrooms (while, incidentally, I'm shaving my legs). So, not much of a separation here.
I apologize for my tone above, but yes, I do get a little ticked when men imply that women don't understand their situation and vice versa. Both sexes are perfectly capable of empathy, thank you. Some simply choose to exercise this ability more than others.
I'm not a feminazi. Just a feminist who believes inequality in a world with metrosexuals in it is rather pointless.