I need help. On life. Please.
So then before you read this please tak in some facts
1. Its a problem of love
2. this story might sound so screwed up it might make penguin13 look good.
3. Dunno but i think some if not all of you will go wtf.
4. I know this girl from her dads store and all. More then 3 times we flirted with each other and all. So yeah this is why im asking where the hell i went wrong.
So then where to start. In january this girl i like was conveniently standing on a street corner with her friend. So her friend spots me and she calls me over. We start chatting and all and i ask her to come to the side and all. So then i ask her out she says fine leave me an unanwsered call and ill call you. Next thing i know i go home take a shower(warm mind you people!) and my phone drops in the toilet. Next day i ask for her number she gives it to me. So i call her once. No answer. Twice no answer. Third time no answer.(in the course of 6 hours). So then i send her a message clearing up who i was and she was all ok got you. My sister has her brithday. Understandable. next week send her a message. No minutes she says so i call her back. No answer. Then the next week same thing. Next week same thing. 5th week i get fed up and tell her look i wanna talk. So she avoids me in chool the whole day. Next thing i know it im sending her a message cursing the crap out of her teling her to stop playing her 5 year old games and people have mouths to speak to others. So then she stopped speaking to me. After a while i couldnt stand anymore and i sent here a message saying sorry and that i want to start speaking again. She gives me no answer at all and still ignores me. My problem? My heart aches for her im in love and i need to hear her voice badly again as im going nuts.Anyway to get over my obsession/love for her or try to get her back?
You know what you need to do? You need to fake sensitivity, my friend. And if you don't have to, then that's sick, you're one of the lucky guys.
Anyway, what you have to do is find a way to tell her something very long and profound. If you know she checks her email frequently, then that's probably your best bet. She's not going to resist reading your email, it's human nature. If you firstly explain why you're sending an email just say that you obviously can't get a hold of her in person, by phone, IM, etc etc.
Next, you say this:
"[Name], I really have to get this off of my mind. If you don't want to talk to me, I'll find a way to deal with it, but you're a beautiful girl that I can't stop thinking about. When I exploded, it was out of pure frustration. I want to talk to you so much, and I miss you just as much, if not more. Please, just give me another chance and you'll see that I'm awesome and you're awesome so we can be awesome together. :D
If not, it's fine. At least I would like to be friends, but please none of this ignoring each other stuff, I can't stand it."
Feel free to extend that or change it as much as you'd like, you just have to keep the main idea there, which is that you can't stand not talking to her and you really want her. But don't say it as bluntly as that because it's kind of rude. XD; If that doesn't work, you have an odd girl on your hands and you should think about chasing some other ones for a change.
