That's the thing... She'll force me to still go. She has some form of control over me... I can't explain it... I'm not assertive in the least. I never can really do what I want. My little sister knows this too. She's been put on meds and talks to a doctor every month whom says that we have bad parents. My little sister agrees with me going because she knows it's the only way to 'break my chains' If I could leave now, I would do it in a heart beat, but I can't...
First off, let me explain something about disability
It really doesn't pay for everything you think it's going to pay for. It might pay for your rent, but are you
100% positive that you're going to be able to buy food? Pay utilities? What about entertainment costs? What about clothing? As someone who also gets disability money, I can tell you that it really doesn't go very far in the grand scheme of things and I have friends that live on, quite literally, to the dime and
they have next to absolutely nothing >> You sure you're going to be able to shop at food stores like Aldis or other off brand stores and wonder if you're going to have enough cash for next week's meal? It's not nearly as simple as you think it is and if you start adding in other fees ontop of that, I guarantee you that you'll see just how not-far it's going. On top of that, I understand you have these particular disabilities but are you sure you're even going to GET disability money? Aspies, yes, I can see some potential money from that if it's severe enough but Anxiety and ADHD are almost
never severe enough to qualify. Just how much do you think you're getting anyways?
Second, you think you're the only person that hates college? I hate to be rude or blunt but I honestly loath college [at least the one I'm currently attending] with absolutely every fiber of my body. Why? I don't feel accepted there and I don't feel like I belong. Do I still attend that school? Absolutely. Do I hate a good portion of it? Absolutely. Have I quit? Absolutely not. There are things in life that we have to do regardless of whether or not we really want to do them. We cannot expect the world to spin for us, we must spin the world to obtain what we wish to obtain. It's going to suck, it's going to be miserable and you're going to have to work hard. You do realize if you go to college, you can live on campus right? This gets you out of the house and yet you're still appeasing your mother. Find a college you like. It sounds retarded but if you go do some college visits, you can find a college you can put up with. Go check out the federally mandated Students with Disabilities area. The one at my university is the only thing really keeping me going, the people are amazing and they make sure that I have all my accommodations. You can, with a disability, sometimes qualify for Voc Rehab which will help you find a job like on campus
and help you find work after you graduate [because you're protected under the laws that make it so you have to be given and will give you ways to get a job you're comfortable with that doesn't aggravate your disorders. :3
Instead of freaking out and switching over to disability monthly stipends, why don't you try looking at this flipside of your disability needs? There's alllll sorts of stuff out there to get you a job you're comfortable with or at least one you can tolerate. D: Please don't just give up and give into this disability stipend; it really isn't as much money as you think it is.
[I know the spelling errors in this are atrocious is because it's 2:30am. XD; sorry]