"I cleaned your room".
This one just angers me beyond belief. I clean my OWN room, but I have my papers everywhere because that's the way I like it. I know where they are. And today when I was at work, she's goes in there and puts ALL the pictures I was working on away somewhere, so now I have to rummage to find them all, plus all my pencils are in the wrong place. And I did my laundry yesterday but just because my pants where on the floor she goes and washes those. They were cleaned yesterday! I'm freaking 20 years old, I don't need my mommy coming in there and making everything nice and tidy. If she had hobbies or friends then she wouldn't have the need to clean everything in her path. I also hate when she tells me to do something that I was going to do anyway, and since she told me to do it then my desire to do that certain chore demenishes some.