Palamon
Silence is Purple
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Gender rant... six, I guess. I'm not counting.
I wish people wouldn't question other's gender identities.
It's really not that hard to let people be. I ain't gonna go and name any names, but I'm just tired of seeing it. I've grown to really despise gender as a whole because of all the "stereotypes" or whatever. I'm uncomfortable in my body as it is, the last thing I need is for my gender identity as a whole to be questioned. Same goes for anyone, really, but I suppose the world has a long way to go before trans people are accepted or get better help. I'm still afraid of people invalidating my dysphoria, or questioning my gender identity.
I'm going to be honest here, I've always had internalized issues with my designated body at birth. I was the exact opposite, and the only time I ever acted what have you, like what I was assigned at during birth, was when my parents pressured all the stereotypes on me. I was always an odd kid, anyway, so, eh. It's whatever, I guess. I don't really... care. All in the past.
I recently tried telling someone I'm a guy, but I'm a little hard-pressed about how little she understands. Hell if I tell my parents, I've tried, but I know how homophobic and transphobic they are, so I just let everything slide and keep it all in the closet.
Maybe it'd be easier if I knew who to talk to or a support group or something, but I'm not a fan of people as it is. You could call me a complete recluse, it doesn't really make a difference to me what the word is, I just know I'm not a fan of conversation at all irl.
Eh.
Please don't question my gender identity, I'm kind of tired of being asked why I type in pink if I'm a guy. I just feel like it, and I'm used to it. Color of my posts =/= gender identity. If you knew me when I identified as the opposite, I'd still appreciate if you'd refer to me as a they. Internally, I refer to myself as him, but I'm 100% no one will wanna call me a he if I ask.
But, eh.
Que sera, sera.
I wish people wouldn't question other's gender identities.
It's really not that hard to let people be. I ain't gonna go and name any names, but I'm just tired of seeing it. I've grown to really despise gender as a whole because of all the "stereotypes" or whatever. I'm uncomfortable in my body as it is, the last thing I need is for my gender identity as a whole to be questioned. Same goes for anyone, really, but I suppose the world has a long way to go before trans people are accepted or get better help. I'm still afraid of people invalidating my dysphoria, or questioning my gender identity.
I'm going to be honest here, I've always had internalized issues with my designated body at birth. I was the exact opposite, and the only time I ever acted what have you, like what I was assigned at during birth, was when my parents pressured all the stereotypes on me. I was always an odd kid, anyway, so, eh. It's whatever, I guess. I don't really... care. All in the past.
I recently tried telling someone I'm a guy, but I'm a little hard-pressed about how little she understands. Hell if I tell my parents, I've tried, but I know how homophobic and transphobic they are, so I just let everything slide and keep it all in the closet.
Maybe it'd be easier if I knew who to talk to or a support group or something, but I'm not a fan of people as it is. You could call me a complete recluse, it doesn't really make a difference to me what the word is, I just know I'm not a fan of conversation at all irl.
Eh.
Please don't question my gender identity, I'm kind of tired of being asked why I type in pink if I'm a guy. I just feel like it, and I'm used to it. Color of my posts =/= gender identity. If you knew me when I identified as the opposite, I'd still appreciate if you'd refer to me as a they. Internally, I refer to myself as him, but I'm 100% no one will wanna call me a he if I ask.
But, eh.
Que sera, sera.