(Sorry Matt, breaking your lock for a moment.)
No, it's not. Just 'cause you're ex-staff doesn't give you the right to dictate to people what to do. :cheeky:
He's not so much dictating what people do, he's saying what the rules are -
because he's ex-staff, he's bound to know the rules a bit more closely than others because he's had to work using them.
Just going to say here - and I'm talking in general here, not just to you - he's right about it. So many people think that only
negative reputation given for no reason is "abuse", but the thing is - "for no reason" applies just as well to
positive reputation; I and other admins
have deleted +rep before that seemed to be given for a reason other than as a commentary on the post it was given to.
There's a reason why it's against the rules for people to ask for reputation (and has been, for years) - doesn't matter if it's in a thread, a social group, or wherever. You should be repping people
for their posts, not just because they share anything with you or because they asked for it.
Also, staff probably tell people to just disable it because 1.) it's the easiest course of action, and 2.) most of them don't care all that much about reputation - as they should, as it's not a system that needs all this fuss over it.