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    I know there`s a thread related to this, but I have a problem.

    I have the feeling that I`m going to start being bullied soon.

    I went to school today & I was having such a great day, until the end when we had Gym time & this girl was talking behind my back with these other girls. They say I 'stare' too much, because the girl sits right in front of the clock in my class so I`m always looking at the clock to see what time my classes will end & she probably thought that I was looking at her! So, she made such a big deal out of it. This happened at the end of the day, so I don`t know what`s going to happen tomorrow.
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    I need help. Has anyone here been thru something like this?
     
    This should be in the "Post your Problems" thread, but never mind.

    Yeah, don't show any signs of weakness to them or they'll start picking on you for sure.
    Just state that you weren't staring at her, you were staring at the clock. Don't seem too offended over it either because that's a sign that you care what they think and you mustn't let them think that.
    If you can, stay in a group of friends as often as possible: bullies won't bully anyone if they're in a group.
     
    And I agree with what Erimgard said...

    Whoever invented the word "agreed" is a genius!

    Yea... they're just plain idiotic if they said that.
     
    Punch her in the nose

    Well, what I'd do is just buy a watch instead of looking at the clock at the wall. I'm usually in the back of the room because of my name so I feel that I get looked at often as well...it does get irritating so I just give them a quizzical look back. If they don't respond to it, they aren't looking at me xD Well yeah, if you don't want to say anything, just look down at your watch. Everyone will forget all about it and I'm sure no one else is thinking about it as hard as you are now.
     
    How stupid of them, as the other guys say, don't show any weakness, people like to use other's insecurities and fears against them to make themself look better.As long as you feel confident in yourself you'll be okay.Hope I helped.
     
    wha

    what r we talking about again i cant remember

    i got kept down at school so every one started saying stuff thats not true so i went to my friends and they told every one to stop than I KICKED THIR ASSSSSSS SO THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Have attitude.

    Be like, "Unless you`re a clock or can tell time, don`t flatter yourself too much."

    Good luck!
     
    Like what everyone else is saying, don't show fear. If you show that you aren't afraid of them you can prove it by saying something like what kirarin-tan was saying. "Unless you're a clock or can tell time, don't flatter yourself too much." It's not that hard to back-sass someone.
     
    Tell them that their big, hollow head is in your way.
     
    If she confronts you about it, then you should DEFINATLY make sure you have some friends around you, don't let her make you talk to her alone while she gets to have a friend beside her to ask questions. >.< ( Personal expeirience) You have to give her a lot of attitude, make a face that says "You're pathetic, don't you have anyone else to annoy?" When she gets so annoyed by your attitude, and she decides to leave, make sure to say "Bye! Nice talking to you!" or something in a really sweet voice, to tick her off some more. =D

    I've had a lot of friendship problems, so I kinda know how to deal with them. Haha.
     
    They must love you to look at you stare at a clock, but yeah just ignore them also just show no sign of weaknesses and you'll be fine
     
    Okay everyone, thanks for the comments. Well, I just came back from school & I`ll have to admit that it wasn`t such a great, great, great day, but it was good & I made it thru... without getting upset. I ignored people a lot though. I`ll try my best to make friends in my class & also, there were moments today when I would communicate with the 'mean' girls but they seemed to be perfectly... nice. I mean, they didn`t look like they were faking it. They seemed to be making fun of this girl now... who is my 'only' (okay, please don`t think I`m a tard) friend in my class. She doesn`t realise it though. I tried talking to her & she seems alright. I just have to make it thru tomorrow as well.

    Thanks for comments! This thread may get closed now If a mod/admin/staff/whatever passes by. (I wonder what that is going to be...)
     
    No problem (b'-')b

    Well I'm telling you, the next day, they'll forget everything that they said about you yesterday and go on to someone else. They'll forget about your friend they were picking on today tomorrow and find someone else to poke fun at because they're insecure about themselves. Yeah, just keep on going about your life and don't let trivial stuff like that bother you. 20 years from now, who's really going to remember?
     
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