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What is your sexuality?

Altairis

Altairis

take me ☆ take you
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    I'm demisexual. I haven't been in a relationship, but I have always known that I wouldn't be sexually attracted to someone until I had formed a romantic connection with them first, so yeah. I also like boys. I'm just not attracted to girls.
     

    Fernbutter

    Murder is the way.
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    I'm probably the most strangely defined Pansexual you could ever meet and describe. Lots of things happened before and it would take too long to explain, so basically, I can never tell if you're good-looking so I can only look forward to your personality, literally.

    For my opinion on sexuality? I could care less about what you're into, as long as you're a great friend, that's good enough for me.
     
    Adore

    Adore

    Party.
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    I'm panromantic and homosexual. Even though I have had romantic feelings for men and women, and I think I could have romantic feelings for people of any gender, I'm only sexually attracted to men.

    As far as my opinion on sexuality goes: as long as the acts are between consenting people of-age, I try not to judge. And I don't think anyone else should either.
     
    Goo

    Goo

    Fiction is an improvement on life
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    I'm pansexual. I like people. People have the potential to be very sexy what with their personalities and skin and all.

    Sometimes though, its just easier to say I'm bi. I've had to explain on more than one occasion that pans don't excite me, and there's no need to keep me away from the cookwear. Even if I WAS sexually attracted to pans, I'd need to ya know, get to know them first. I wouldn't just fancy every pan that came my way. But pans don't have personality so I guess thats a huge part of why I like people.

    I love personalities, well, some anyway.

    I had a bit of trouble in high school cause it was against the rules to be in any same gender relationship and when it got out I had a girlfriend, she had to leave or we'd both be expelled. And then I had a teacher who didn't quite get it and assumed I was attracted to every girl I was nice to and when I befriended a younger freshman (I was a senior at the time) she told me to stay away from her. I don't even like people that much younger it would have been really weird plus she wasn't attractive. She was a friend. I tend to like personalities more than looks though.
     

    Corvus of the Black Night

    Wild Duck Pokémon
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    I'm straight and boring. Sorry.

    Orpheus said:
    I'm an aromantic asexual. Don't even try to make me think I'll change.
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    Orpheus said:
    Most of the time when I tell people that they say something like: "You're just 14" or "You'll change"
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    I don't want to rain on your parade, but from personal experience, it can take time. You might change. So be open to yourself. If you're still like that when you're like, 18, 19, then yeah, I'd stick with it. But you're also fourteen. I didn't develop my sexuality until I was nineteen. Before then I was strictly asexual. I didn't even understand what sexual attraction really was. So yes, you might change. I won't tell you to, but you need to understand that there is that possibility. This also goes for the 13 year old who said they were asexual.

    One of my coworkers was asexual until he was 26. I'm not saying that permanent asexuals don't exist, but I do believe that some people take a lot longer than others to really become sexually interested.
     

    Yukari

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    daigonite said:
    I'm straight and boring. Sorry.





    I don't want to rain on your parade, but from personal experience, it can take time. You might change. So be open to yourself. If you're still like that when you're like, 18, 19, then yeah, I'd stick with it. But you're also fourteen. I didn't develop my sexuality until I was nineteen. Before then I was strictly asexual. I didn't even understand what sexual attraction really was. So yes, you might change. I won't tell you to, but you need to understand that there is that possibility. This also goes for the 13 year old who said they were asexual.

    One of my coworkers was asexual until he was 26. I'm not saying that permanent asexuals don't exist, but I do believe that some people take a lot longer than others to really become sexually interested.
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    Even after I said that I didn't want people to bother. I would tell you the whole story behind this but I don't want to wast my breath
     

    Corvus of the Black Night

    Wild Duck Pokémon
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    Orpheus said:
    Even after I said that I didn't want people to bother. I would tell you the whole story behind this but I don't want to wast my breath
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    I speak from personal experience as someone who was asexual at your age. I didn't understand sexuality either when I was 14 and found it incredibly offputting. If I was my 14 year old self I'd probably be having the same stance as you. I didn't understand it until 5 years later. You might change, you might not. Some people never understand it. If you want to be offended by the fact that someone points out that you are still growing and you are still going through the maelstrom that is puberty, and that things might change, then so be it.
     
    Sheep

    Sheep

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    boys boys boys boys

    Yes, I like boys and am very much straight. J'aime les garçons. :) (please tell me I did that right) For the longest time I'd assumed I was asexual but eventually started realizing what my preferences were towards my mid-late teens. Women can be gorgeous but not to the extent of me being romantically interested in them.
     
    antemortem

    antemortem

    rest after tomorrow
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    Over the past couple of years I've truly started to find myself, despite being absolutely and totally confused before. I believe getting out of my comfort zone and experimenting with things, no matter how I was looked down on for x and x, I've got a more distinct idea of what exactly I "am." I'm not too fond of labels and will go out of my way to avoid being labeled by people by shrugging when I'm asked "what I am" but if I had to, I'd say I am homoromantic. Sex doesn't interest me all that much, though I'm not opposed to having it, but I'm absolutely the relationship/romance/touchy-feely type so I don't for a moment reject physical relations. As well, physical contact with a girl pretty outright disgusts me. 8)
     

    Attacker Z

    The Pokemaniac
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    Well I'm straight, been with a girlfriend I love to death and wish to marry one day, as for what I think about sexuality I say just do what you want, I don't really care if your bi or gay or whatever, it ain't affecting me so why should it matter to me?
     

    Shapshu

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    Catholic Nun said:
    I do sort of understand where shortsboy is coming from, though. While I would never go so far as to deny people their right to define themselves as they'd wish, I do feel like the current generation has a habit of getting too bogged down in the specifics of everything. I guess I understand it from the perspective of if I ask a simple question, I'd like a simple answer. But I guess things in this world get less and less simple as times go on.
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    MTE. I think that realistically sexuality is so complex that trying to force people into gay or straight boxes is destined to fail. But. I can't help but feel like the number of other labels has exploded beyond any necessity. (And, you know, I am one of the "other" people.)

    When someone writes "Kinky panromantic asexual" as their self-description in the "About me . . . " blurb on their blog or whatever, I wonder why they're telling me about their sexuality and not their personality. I guess then my issue is not with the labels themselves, but with the fact that people seem to be overly obsessed with them. Pretty much everyone I've ever met who was obsessed with their sexuality --- regardless of what it was --- was a jerk.
     

    Terridon

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    To be honest, I have no idea what sexuality I have.

    Still have lots of years ahead of me figuring it out so I'm not on a speedboat cruise to find out or anything like that of the matter. One day I would like to find out one day but for now, I'm cool with the fact that I've got no idea (I'm also at a thinking point where my romantic and sexual attraction are different that each other).

    My opinion of it is that I don't mind what sexuality you are, I'm going to respect you as a person. Respecting everybody is usually my policy most of the time.
     

    rickyt713

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    im as straight as a man can be. i am attracted to women of many shapes and races. my browser history will vouch for it.
    i view other sexualities with an immense amount of respect, i don't discriminate because i view them as people just like everyone else. aint no other reason to think different.
     
    Toni88

    Toni88

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    Well... I'm a very confused person in everything, especially on my sexuality: some days I like men, other days I like women, other days I don't like nothing... but I'm not sure on if I really want to have a girl/boyfriend, because I've never had friends of every kind due I suffer from social phobia and borderline personality disorder at the same time (that are completely opposite), so nobody wants to stay with me because they think I'm different form the rest (my classmates calls me "insane", and this seriously destroy my mood...).
    Anyway I don't know even what have a friend is like, thus I think that I could stay single for all my life...
     

    New Eden

    Ascension to heaven
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    I don't label myself regarding sexual orientation anymore. I just find myself attracted to people regardless of whatever gender they identify as. If I'm forced to pick one though then I go with pan.
    I tend to be more sexually attracted to more feminine traits while ending up falling for those with more masculine traits (better yet, a blend of both.) All of my past three crushes were guys...last time I fell for another girl was in high school, so I guess romantic attraction overpowers.
     
    Volga

    Volga

    The Dragon Knight
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    • Age 35
    • Seen Mar 19, 2023
    I am homosexual. I also didn't let my sexuality get in the way of what I wanted and I now have twins, both boys (that are biologically mine btw).

    So let that be a lesson to anyone that thinks sexuality can get in the way of what they want, just believe in yourself and be brave.

    I just proof-checked this and realized I sound like a motivational speaker. lol
     
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