Spartan06, do not ignore GoldenHouou's PMs. She is trying to sort it out in the manner that it should be dealt with, over PM instead of on the forums, so you should cooperate and obey the rules. Arguments over the forums simply clutter them and waste forum space...and also, if people see that your thread is full of arguments, they'll be even less likely to request from you!
I hope that you will work this issue out between the two of you. One of you needs to concede - this is the only way it's going to get sorted out without further intervention.