lynds, Captain Fabio, and Kura,
Thanks you for the kind words. I'm just confused really. *Sigh*, I think I realized, reading your comments, what triggered my anger towards my father. Thank you so much. You see, we move to a new place which means I don't have anyone to talk to except express it here. Thanks a bunch for listening. :)
Oh and Kura... I'm a guy. :P
Like the title says, I'm in the market for a bike...any suggestions? I'm thinking of going with a Trek of some sort but that's as far as I've gotten...mostly because the only bicycle store close to me sells only Trek and Specialized.
Anyone know of any pros and cons to watch out for between these two brands or just about bikes in general? I live in the burbs so I definitely need a city bike as I don't think I'm hardcore enough to take my bike anywhere, I just want a fun way to be not flabby. ^^; Also I'd like to be able to ride to the library since I'm only a couple of miles away, so there should be very little off-road biking going on.
No idea what to do right now. My ex got pregnant. At the time we were together but she left me not long after we found out. At max 2 weeks. and I am really unsure whether it is mine. She has avoided the subject for ages. Don't really know what I am supposed to do about it now. I was excited about it but now all I can think about is whether it is even mine or not, and its really getting me down.
It isn't like there is no reason for me to be like it. She was having her ex round all the time and I was always second place so my doubts aren't just from hearsay and so on. It is from what I myself think.
Just a heads up; make sure you get tests, evidence, etc. to find out if the baby is yours or not before the birth. After your name is put on the birth certificate, the baby is legally your responsibility, even if you find out you aren't actually the father at a later date. I've seen it happen and it's not pretty.No idea what to do right now. My ex got pregnant. At the time we were together but she left me not long after we found out. At max 2 weeks. and I am really unsure whether it is mine. She has avoided the subject for ages. Don't really know what I am supposed to do about it now. I was excited about it but now all I can think about is whether it is even mine or not, and its really getting me down.
It isn't like there is no reason for me to be like it. She was having her ex round all the time and I was always second place so my doubts aren't just from hearsay and so on. It is from what I myself think.
Hey guys, I have a kind of a problem
I am a college student. My best friend goes to same college as me. He is good friend and a great person. He is a Junior while I am Freshman (2nd semester). During these days, I had noticed something. Whenever he is talking or spending more time with another person than me, I feel bad and even sometimes a little bit jealous. I sometimes think that he trusts more in other people than me and that makes feel weird and jealous. How can I avoid feeling this way? Is there something wrong with me if I feel this way?
THEN IT'S YOUR DUTY TO DEFEND HER.
I assume your mum is single. If he's a lunatic, talk to her about it, calmly. Make her realise it's a bad idea, if the relationship gets more serious it's much harder to get rid of him so it's best to turn her around to your way of thinking before that can happen. Make sure you don't get angry or anything with her, otherwise it'll be her and him against you and that's a bad situation. You've got to stay on her side and make sure she knows it, your aim is to help her.
Nothing's wrong with you, it's just insecurity. Make other friends so you don't feel so dependent on his attention.
I have a problem:
My boyfriend is an amazing boyfriend. He's kind to me, we get on great, have great chemistry, we can totally be ourseleves around each other, he treats me to nice things, we go to the movies together stay at each other's houses. Have a generally good relationship.
The only bleak spot is I have serious self-esteem issues. Everytime we pass another girl on the street or a music video is on T.V. I get seriously paranoid that he'll be more attracted to her than me, which I know isn't just. I just can't help having these obsessive thoughts and I kinda wish I could just switch my brain off and enjoy my relationship. I had a few past relationships which ended badly and made me feel a bit worthless, and I'm his first relationship so he doesn't really understand where I', coming from.
I really don't like feeling this way, but I feel I can't let my gaurd down or I'm just going to be hurt.
My question is, am I a bad person for feeling a bit insecure? I feel like a terrible person everytime I think it :(
You're not a bad person for being insecure. Just remember you're a wonderful human being and your boyfriend is with you for that reason, so he won't be attracted to anyone else :) .
Thanks, that makes me feel a bit better :) It's still hard to believe you're everything he wants when you're just ordinary and there's so girls who you believe are better ><
I have a problem:
My boyfriend is an amazing boyfriend. He's kind to me, we get on great, have great chemistry, we can totally be ourseleves around each other, he treats me to nice things, we go to the movies together stay at each other's houses. Have a generally good relationship.
The only bleak spot is I have serious self-esteem issues. Everytime we pass another girl on the street or a music video is on T.V. I get seriously paranoid that he'll be more attracted to her than me, which I know isn't just. I just can't help having these obsessive thoughts and I kinda wish I could just switch my brain off and enjoy my relationship. I had a few past relationships which ended badly and made me feel a bit worthless, and I'm his first relationship so he doesn't really understand where I', coming from.
I really don't like feeling this way, but I feel I can't let my gaurd down or I'm just going to be hurt.
My question is, am I a bad person for feeling a bit insecure? I feel like a terrible person everytime I think it :(
All girls feel like that sometimes (and that's coming from a guy).
But I'm positive your boyfriend likes you more than those girls who believe they are all that. Usually the girls who think they are better are actually the worst.
Just remember you're a unique and beautiful young woman :) .
Captain Fabio said:I will just say this.
It is normal, don't worry about it and always remember this. HE IS WITH YOU! Every time you see another girl, just think of that. He is with you, not anyone else.
I may have posted about this before, but I now have to end this.
A few months ago a friend of mine posted a comment on someones site pretending to be them.
Oh and framed me for it.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP
'fraid I can't do that.
I lost friends and even the girl I fancy turned her back on me.
I'll explain more:
something happened when a "friend" of mine came round.
Cut a long story short he created an account on someone else's site pretending to be the site's owner. He also professed this fake accounts love for a girl.(who the site owner loves in real life)
He then pinned it all on me.
To make things look worse, I had recently had a fall out with the site owner.
All the evidence proved it was me and I had a concrete motive too.
I lost all my friends because of this.
I then became, how shall I put this, emotionally unstable.
To make matters a hell of a lot worse, the girl I love shouted a load of crap at me and told me I had made her life a misery and said I should leave her alone.
Also my teachers started calling me useless.
I am now an emotional wreck and I just want my friends and my love back.something happened when a "friend" of mine came round.
Cut a long story short he created an account on someone else's site pretending to be the site's owner. He also professed this fake accounts love for a girl.(who the site owner loves in real life)
He then pinned it all on me.
To make things look worse, I had recently had a fall out with the site owner.
All the evidence proved it was me and I had a concrete motive too.
I lost all my friends because of this.
I then became, how shall I put this, emotionally unstable.
To make matters a hell of a lot worse, the girl I love shouted a load of crap at me and told me I had made her life a misery and said I should leave her alone.
Also my teachers started calling me useless.
I am now an emotional wreck and I just want my friends and my love back.
well just yesterday, i have had some problems. see my dad left my mum me and my brother and sister when i was five. now he has had 3(as i know of) girlfriends and now his most recent one is 28! hes 42 this august mind you! that girl(baby still,living with her parents!)has had a baby just yesterday. now i dont like anything about this, i dont want anything to do with it, dont want to talk to him nor her.
again he hardly calls us, but he is full flighted(if you kno what i mean) in raising this baby. he says he cant afford coming to see us because we live state to state in australia. and my brother is autistic and is talking about this baby like mad(he doesnt want anything to do with it at all)and so does my mum(they live with me,im still youngish)and they constantly ask me how do i feel about the baby? im getting to the point where i am going to say to my father "i hope the dingo ates your baby!" i just dont wanna hear it i dont know what to do i just want out of it
darn flu,well i keep sneezing alot!!! not so much as a flu arrghhh its hurting my nose im gunna sneeze my brains out!!