Well.. you have to keep in mind, if you tick the ops off on one channel, they aren't going to look kindly at you on the other. I really don't see you as too bad--just a a little easily excitable.
And the only other person on #tpc-romhacking that was really calling you annoying was kind of being pretty damn annoying himsefl too.
I dunno--if I was interested in most of this drama, I'd prolly go onto the main channel as well.