Heh, all southern Japan. Not surprised as that's the tourist-y part of Japan (not a lot of reasons to come way up here in the north), but I have a very different experience because of it. There's plenty of reasons for me to go back home. I'm a foreigner that lives in rural Japan, and that comes with about as many problems as being a POC living in rural US does. Japan also doesn't have as many rights for women, and basically none for LGBT (which I am, surpriiiiise) so that's a nice overarching problem. At the same time though, there's a uniqueness to the culture up here; I get a lot of experiences I never would if I lived in a bigger city, or even if I was farther south. I also have juuuust enough foreign friends (most of which actually come from WA too, because my city has a sister city relationship with a town in WA) to not go crazy, and having a car and ONE train south is enough to keep me from being totally isolated haha.
Grad school tho, nice! I can think about that when I pay off my current school loans lol. Who knows, maybe we'll both be back in WA when we're done with our respective things? xD
Oh so you totally get it! Such a tricky business. See that's why I set aside blocks of time and ONLY that time for trading. If people can't make it then that's too bad. It's too much trouble to try and work it otherwise. >>