No, really. I mean you shouldn't BE SO DAMN HARD ON YOURSELF.
Here's a quote that should teach you a lesson:
"Don't discuss yourself, for you are bound to lose: if you belittle yourself, you are believed; if you praise yourself, you are disbelieved."
— Michel de Montaigne
...I don't know who that is but it was in "Uncle John's Colossal Collection of Quotable Quotes". Great book, by the way. Uncle John's Bathroom Readers are always a good buy.
Oh yeah and here's a post that needs tending to.