Just to defend Opdi here, he said your rules... you didn't list any. It doesn't matter what the "standard" is, if you want clauses or certain rules in play, please mention it in your post. I, personally, will not obey clauses unless specifically requested. And even then I don't like clauses.
So for all the clause-people out there, when you personally challenge someone (outside of a tourny where the set rules are listed), please say which clauses you want in play, or even just say "standard rules apply" if you want them all.
That'll make things a whooole lot easier on freelance players like myself.