Once again, failure is evident within the world, as Ms. "Kairi" has failed to replicate Naminé's posting style by mentioning the word "you." Such a small case proves that mere mortals can never keep their promises or dedications... Therefore, Naminé can do nothing but to trust no one but God, as no one else can ever keep promises with Naminé like so.
Naminé believes that it is enough about her already, and that the DCC is desperately in need of a new shift of attention. If Ms. Lily is talking in the voice of Kairi, then why doesn't Ms. Lily change her username to "Kairi"? If Naminé recalls correctly, a kind assistant administrator by the name of Mr. Kent Colton Rogers had offered Naminé an opportunity to take on the name of Kairi before, and perhaps Ms. Lily can ask him for the name change.
As for Mr. Drummershuff, who should also play the game Kingdom Hearts if possible, no Naminé was not in any intention to establish any of the PC relationships as of now, be it adopting family members or pairups. Ms. Lily is simply copying Naminé out of pure "amusement" and mockery of her.