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Do you talk badly about different/other people?


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Asura Nirosuki

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    Are you the kind of person who talks badly about other people behind there backs?Or are you the kind who wants to beat the crap out of people who do that?

    I bet you know what a person reaction is when someone is what they beilive stupid/ugly/huge. They talk really really crappy about that person and it pisses me off when they won't shut up about it.That someone already has a hard time in life you know that they don't need more people jumping in and judging them.
    I just wanted to kill people like that. >.>
     
    Oooh, I like this topic...

    I try not to talk to people behind their backs. It sounds extremely rude, and wimpish. I personally know I wouldn't want to be talked about in a rude way when I'm not around. However, sometimes, I can't help it. I am an extremely shy person. If I had something to say to them, I'd be too afraid to tell it to them. That's why I lose at life. ^^;
     
    I'm with you, maya. I hate it when people do that. They just don't realize that apart from hurting people's feeling they also get a "bad name" from others who find that annoying too. I wish I could do something to stop that thing, but unfortunately, I've come to the position to hesitate about who my true friends are.
     
    Of course not.
    If I have problems with someone, I tell it in their face.
    I don't care if the person in important or if it is just a homeless guy, I'll say what I think. I don't see why hiding it. If you hide what you think, you won't change what you want to. Some people are just too preocupated with their social status that they act nicely to everyone, including those they hate. I find that a very stupid thing to do.
     
    No, if I dislike someone that much, I'd tell them to their face, ot let them know don't like them, but honestly, I can't really think of anyone I hate that much. o_o I do make fun of my friends while they aren't around though, but it's nothing I wouldn't say to their faces... and it's never to be mean, that's just playfulness of our relationships. XP Like when I tell Eliana she sucks, I don't really thinks she sucks, I just likt to pick on her and she knows that. ;333 *glomps Eli*
     
    *sigh* Kinda... tch, usually when I'm talkin' ta someone who can understand me... Lol, I don't talk behind their backs, I just say it face-ta-face, but after a while ya start seein' how useless it is and only talk about it ta ppl who can understand an' listen... yeah, it's a nice way ta let it all out, everything I hate about those around me. ^.=======.^
     
    Wow, I hate it too.
    But see, I can't say I don't do it..I do sometimes, and I feel really horrible..
    If one of my friends were to do it to me, I wouldn't feel very great either..

    Let's just say, I would NEVER talk bad about my friends, but I sometimes talk about people I don't like behind their backs..It's not fair. Which is why I try not to do it.

    ~Jeffery~ Very good topic!
     
    I hate it when people talk behind meh back.. It's like if he/she has any issue against meh, just talk ta' meh face ta' face.. Why talk behind meh back? I hate people of that sort..
     
    meh, if i hear someone talking behind my it dont bother me and anytime i want to say somehting i dont talk behind their backs i say it in their face
     
    sometimes if im really mad about a person but normally im justlistenin wat other ppl say about other ppl O.o
     
    My policy is to not talk about anyone behind their backs just because of their physical appearance or disabilities or so. But if you're getting in my nerves and you're trying to imply your immaturity to me, then I will talk it in front of you. It's also a thing called criticizing.
     
    I don't talk bad about some ones physical appearance to their face or behind their back, cause I know I'm not the best looking person and I woulden't want some one talkig bad about me.
    Also, if a person is a jerk and I don't like the person, then I will say something about them cause du'h, their a jerk. And if I chose NOT to say something to their face then thats my choice, just because you don't like that person and that person is a jerk to you, doesn't mean you should be one back.;)
    EDIT: Keep in mind that that rarely happens, cause I don't meet to many jerks.
     
    Mwar, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. I generally prefer not to though... makes me feel guilty about it unless I just don't like the person o.=.o;;
     
    I'll be blunt, yes, I do talk about people behind their backs sometimes. I don't do it unless I really dislike that person, of course. I feel bad later though, because I feel like such a wimp..

    But yes, I do talk about people behind their backs sometimes.And I know people have talked about me behind my back because I barely get any PMs saying "hey Greed, let me tell you what I think about you personally!" or anything like that.

    And as for those people who had the decency of PMing me and personally telling me what they think about me rather than just posting it on the DCC thread, I respect those people.. Even if they completely flamed me, but hey, at least they did it to my face. I appreciate getting told off privately than in public.

    But I'll be honest with you.

    I have critisized people behind their backs, but I don't flame people when they send me a PM telling me off. I know they've made their point and I made mines, so there is no point in continuing a PM war.

    I don't tattle either, if somebody is flaming me on PM, don't expect me to be a little b!tch and report it to a mod. Because that is downright foolishness. All a mod can really do is warn the person not to do it again, and I'll look like a wuss.

    So yeah~. I talk about people behind their backs, but I don't try to justify myself by hiding behind the staff. :/
     
    Originally I don't, but if someone gets on my bad side, I'll mumble stuff about em. So basically, you mess with me and you'll begin to get a negative reaction. T.T And unfortunately due to my shy nature I really can't say anything until someone else does.
     
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