Dating Training

Wing Zero

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    hey and welcome! i dont beive there one of theres threads here so i though id make one...

    so, this thread is about dating tactics, strategies, etc...i know i kinda make it sound like a game but what im saying is that i, and mabey other epople, want to know some way to...you know...get over being embarassed and asking someone out, what do do on a date, where to go, what to see...etc...so any one?
     
    Uhh It's all intuition, you don't need tips on how to date a person because everyone has their own style. Me I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 months again and I haven't used any special tactics. It's not really needed anyways. Plus.. Dating is so overrated, its all about going about to the right places. It's more about Chillin' with your girlfriend or boyfriend than about a formal date..
     
    whats your idea of a "formal" date consist of? what do you do...still no answers to the questions XD but you KINDA answered some...well any way that i could finally get the guts to ask a girl out, and even then what do i ask her...im in middle school so its not like i could say, "hey want me to drive you to the movies then we could go get some coffe..." lol, but for my age...help?
     
    I don't know, I'm a very informal person, the only formal thing I went to that could actually be called a date is The Prom. Other then that, I'm always with my girlfriend so we don't really need to day, I see her in school, after that, And I'm even going to see her in florida when we go on Sunday. Asking girls out isn't that easy, first you have to befriend them. But Only date girls in your class, never as a popular girl out, or it might be trouble. Once your friends, start flirting and see what she thinks. After that just ask her out. Forget about the Movies, thats where the losers go to make out.. You need to explore the mall, and it's wonders.
     
    lol i never said id go to the movies, pluse thats what they do in the movies, take girls to the movies...o_0; confoosing...
    anyways, why never date a popular girl...cuz uh thats my problem she like the most pretty girl in shcool...
    also, im not saying im not popular, but isnt popularity judged by how mnay people know you, well if thats the case probably the whole school know who i am...
     
    It doesn't work like that in my school, which is pretty much like everywhere else. Your either Born Popular (Carry it over from Other Schools), go Out with someone popular (Only Boys can go out with Unpopular girls, because Girls shouldnt date unpopular guys), A Miracle saves you ( Something good happens like you become friends with someone in the group) Or your family with a popular person.

    Other than that the only traits popular people should have is beauty, good sense of music, kindness, and friends. Popular people should not be Funny, or out of style..

    People don't really go to the movies.. it's only for special occasions. A Real date is either a party, chill outside the school or at the mall, or at your lover's house (Dont do anything crazy :P). Also It depends on who your friends are, Popularity and beauty points, and If you dress well.. Then people will notice you.
     
    My best advice is to not date at all...it's more trouble than it's worth (as is love in general) ... why not spend what little of the youth you have left not worrying about these sort of things? I don't...but then again I've accepted that I'm forever doomed to isolation from other people :P
     
    i dont know...see this girl that i like its beyond liking..
    i think about her in the day
    i dream of her in the night
    and every time i look at her and she looks back i blush and look away...i dont know mabey loves not worth the pain...
     
    Love is worth it for me :)... I'm already married :) well.. sorta under the church of my friends I am but not legally. Love is worth it, you just have to find the special one in your group.
     
    I absolutely despise love >.<; You have to be very careful with love. My advice is.. Never fall in love too deep. The deeper your love for that person is, the harder you'll fall when they let you go. Love is like digging a hole, the deeper you make it, the more you like that person. But if they push you (heartbreak) down your own hole, phew! Is that gonna hurt! XD

    Anyways, more advice. Errr.. Be yourself? :P Usually I would prefer to be friends with that person, get to know em, and stuff like that. Simple stuff ^^;

    *dies*
     
    When on a date, the key is to be as obnoxious as humanely possible. Be cheap, loud, and overly offensive and your date will have no CHOICE but to love you...

    At least that's what I think. Personally I think that dating shouldn't be done until college...serious dating anyways...cause 99% of the time you lose all your friends out of high school...it sucks all but it's the bloody truth...

    we were meant to live fro so much BOO ya!
     
    yes ive had thoughts against middle school dating becuase, how will i knwo how this girl will grow up, what shell grow up to be, how shell look in 20 years...i just dont know...i guess ill abandon love for the time being...but if she asks me out them im all for it ~_^ my not wantiing to date till a later age doesnt mean we still cant post tips on this thread! so shoot! NOT AT ME! *dodges bullet*
     
    Heh this is funny :) If you guys go to the same college or stay in the same hometown... Me and my girlfriend are going to be together forever *Shows engagement rings*
     
    Dizzy said:
    Heh this is funny :) If you guys go to the same college or stay in the same hometown... Me and my girlfriend are going to be together forever *Shows engagement rings*
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    i dont understand what you mean? what are you saying lol?!
     
    Im saying I live in the same city as my girlfriend :) And we're engaged so were going to be together for freekin ever
     
    good for you...how did you meet, any TIPS you would like to give us on knowing how you know when the girl you meet is "the one" you are meant to be with...and have you ever had any fights, if so how do you resolve them ~_^ thanks....
     
    Uhh I met her in the 2nd Grade and this is an arranged marriage. But she is that special one and I know that because no other couple has the relationship that we have. We fight but in a playful manner and we're always acting stupid together :) I love her so much, and things are already working out... I've done lots of things with her, even things I can't mention on PC :) And What do you mean by thanks?
     
    thanks for sharing lol, is it true that arranged marriges usualy work out better than free choice marriges, atleast in your case it did..
    any ways, so you havnt ever had a fight....and f you have what was it about (if you can tell us...) and how was it resolved?
    *gazes at dizzy* "... I've done lots of things with her, even things I can't mention on PC " does thta mean what i think it means?
     
    It sure does :)... lol, Well there was only once where me and her fought. I bought her a hat, and she thought it was the prettiest thing, but some hater said it was mad ugly, she slapped the girl and wouldnt talk to me, saying the hat was ugly. But we resolved it later.. By making out. I love her so much
     
    whoa... Dizzy ive seen you in a new light knowing youve eerr...done...eer...yea, okay next suject!
    tips on introducing yourself to someone and tips on how to get close t o that person...i kneed people to respond lol, i stink at answering these otherwise i wouldnt have made this thread XD lol..

    *shocked* dizzy im still like totaly amazed...ive never...so yor saying you did "IT" with her?...
     
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