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Depressed

thats always scary, my parents always fought but my dad would never hit my mom.
my dad is really caring, but hes a trained killer and if anything threatened my little sister, im pretty sure he wouldnt stop killing it.
haha.

p.s. oh kero, i get it now.
:)
 
Forced said:
thats always scary, my parents always fought but my dad would never hit my mom.
my dad is really caring, but hes a trained killer and if anything threatened my little sister, im pretty sure he wouldnt stop killing it.
haha.

p.s. oh kero, i get it now.
:)
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Your dad's some sort of assassin or something? I was gonna poke fun at your sig but now that I know that... :P

Parent issues really suck. My mom and dad are still married and everything but whenever they're fighting it makes me feel discomfort. I usually just stay out of it and let them solve whatever it is on their own.
 
When I'm upset I go for a really long bike ride. It's a relaxing and a good time to think. It calms my nerves and distracts me from sad thoughts. And when I come back home, I feel so refreshed.

try it. :)
 
I just try and forget or the bad things going on, kept your mind on the things that make you happy... and if you don't think anything makes you happy, then find something that does.
A hobby is always good, be creative, or work out. Anything really.
 
Jester Girl said:
Yeah, I was like that for a month. Well, I still am, and tommorow I have plans for a party. So it's all pretty dope.

I really can't stand seeing people depressed though, and I can tell even over the internet a little. It's odd.
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She's right, moping solves nothing.

My Great Nan, who meant the world to me died on new years eve a few years back, but after an hour or so of crying my eyes out, I decided to get off my sorry ass and have a walk and see a friend or two. Things like this never ever stop hurting, but they get a lot less painful with time.
 
Dude, you're not the only one that has bad times. I'm very sure that almost all of us on this forum have gone through some dramatic event in our lives that makes us believe that we've hit rock bottom. But everything has to be seen from all perspectives. Sure, you may think that your life is the worst, but look at what you have. Your brothers are alive. You see both of your parents. You may not think you want to, but trust me, it's important. My father is a drug addict. He left my mother, brother, and myself when I was little. I can go anywhere from six months to three years without seeing him. Just remember that everything happens for a reason. Bad things help shape you as a person and make you learn to act a certain way. They help you have a better idea of what to do/ not to do as you get older.
Everything'll get better I promise,
 
Just try to make the best you can out of the situation you're in and don't let it influence you.

I know it sounds "easier said than done", but just think of it this way. The moment you let your situation get the best of you, you will be in a much worser situation than you are in now. I don't think anyone wants that, including yourself.

Working out is a good way to relieve any stress also :)
 
Deppresion meh? You know what you need to do?

Get over it.

I'm not meaning to be harsh, but I don't feel sympathetic. I have no need to, thinking about it and moping about it wont help... I have seen some bad cases of deppresion, I was one of them. My nan is a foster carer, she takes care of all sorts of children, but... when someone is around you and you are doing something, things turn around, you will laugh and run and... look just get outside, get some fresh air, jump up and down, go to someone's house, it will pass, just... deal with it....

I really don't need to be harsh, but... I don't have much of a choice, what will sympathy do? It won't magicly cure anyone... so just be out with it, obviosly have a bit of sympathy in you, but don't lie and make up crap so they feel better, tell them the truth... friends helped me... they can help anyone... love can help, any nice emotion, try it ;)
 
=] dont worry.
I myself am in a similar situation to you.
My parents dont ever encourage me when i'm doing bad in studies etc.
but they encourage me with i'm doing well in school, so i just get annoyed with them alot... and these days, theyre more of my enemie then my family..
the only person that actually cares about me..

she lives too far away from me to talk to and etc.
i call her alot, but umm, yeah thats it...

call up some of your close friends, or your favourite gurl (girlfriend..?) and they should be able to help you out.
Laughter is the best second best medicine..

Friends... If theyre true friends... You cant live without them... so they are your best medicine.
stick with them, they'll help you through this :)
 
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Go to your school councellor, or a child/teen conceller, if you absolutely need to.
because, the councellor is just going to explain to you the situation your parents are going throu, ang he's going to tell you to get over it, you have to anyway, and tell you to have fun with life..
thats the usual..
I myself would hang out with my closer friends till things get better with me. but just tell them you're emotionally cut so 'lets not get too far wif our jokes' cuz they'll try to make the situation funny for you.
 
GalladeIceMan said:
I'm really depressed because my parents are divorced and my grandpa just died. I'm forced to spend my so called "fun" weekends at my dad's. I really don't trust him, and it's really boring here. My three brothers just make it worse. They're so annoying that I think my head's going to explode. My depressed side keeps my mad side centered. There's nothing fun for me anymore. If anybody has any suggestions, please give me an option.
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Makes plans with friends for at least one of the days on the weekends, those always cheer them up. Just work through all the sad feelings, things will get better, go get yourself a girl, mate, they make it all better.
 
k. thx everyone. I'm feeling better now, (except I can't get the girl :() thx.
 
hey guy, long time. I know how you feel. My parents were "separated" for a while and during that time i lost both grandfathers, my grandmother, an uncle and a pet! Talk about a bad year! You just got to push on, and yea, get over it. S*** happens to all of us. Battle online, and do other things that you enjoy. Get a hobby, go fishing, play games and get moving. Everything will work itself out, trust me.
 
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