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Have you ever had.....................??

Yeah, I have, and it was the most awful feeling in the world. I kinda shut down, and the worst thing was, I didn't have anyone to talk about it with. I think if and when I find someone else, I'm gonna have a few issues concerning trust... =<
 
Z34guy said:
nope. I'm usually the heart breaker. but my hearts been broken for years and people have tried to mend it, usually breaking theirs in the process
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Same~

Back in March I had a break up with a guy I had been dating for over a year and that was definitely heart break. Emotionally I don't think I had ever felt that much pain. It was weird because I didn't cry like when we were breaking up (I had just gotten though yelling at him w/ the f-bomb every two seconds) and we pretty much decided that we just didn't work. But then driving home... it just like hit me. And how long I had been with him and stuff.

Yeah.

After that I used rebounds and a few one night stand-ish things to get over everything and I REALLY regret that. Right now though I've been dating a guy for a month and I'm happy so far :)
 
A month? That's a blessing compared to what I went through. So, yes, I have been heartbroken. But I had the best closure that anyone could ask for. Feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders...I was very happy after that happened. It was like I could finally move on 100%. Happy to say I'm with the person who helped me through those tough times now. I couldn't be happier if I tried.
 
SilverSmeargleSplatter said:
A month? That's a blessing compared to what I went through. So, yes, I have been heartbroken. But I had the best closure that anyone could ask for. Feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders...I was very happy after that happened. It was like I could finally move on 100%. Happy to say I'm with the person who helped me through those tough times now. I couldn't be happier if I tried.
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Big weight taken off your shoulder? Did your ex die or something?
 
First of all, not only girls break hearts, and I'm offended that you would think that way. Guys are horrible: they'll lead you on so much and get what they want, and then never call you back. My friends cry incredibly over guys that they thought looked super hot, then ended up going to a party with them. It all seems great, she gets drunk, he gets drunk. One thing leads to another, and hopefully he doesn't convince you (however much that might take) to go all the way. Even if he doesn't, he never calls back. He breaks your heart.

BUT THANK GOD IM A LESBIAN.

Anyway, yes I have had my heart broken by a girl. It was.. about a year ago, now. I really don't like to think about it, and..well this is just making me think about it, haha. But yeah, it's happened to me.
 
Girls are aware guys want sex, so if they choose to party/drink they should accept the consequences and least of all expect something after that night...
 
pokejungle said:
Girls are aware guys want sex, so if they choose to party/drink they should accept the consequences and least of all expect something after that night...
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Are you dumb? Not every girl goes to a party and intends to get drunk and have sex. Not at all.
 
I just have to reply to this... it's getting to me to a sense where I can't stop thinking about it...

pokejungle said:
Girls are aware guys want sex, so if they choose to party/drink they should accept the consequences and least of all expect something after that night...
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You seem to be the type of guy that believes trying to hook up with a girl after they've had a few drinks and take advantage of their current status is a good thing when it isn't. In many situations, as I've learned in health time and time again over the years, this can be counted as rape seeing as how the woman wouldn't be able to think clearly enough to make decisions for herself and giving consent to having an intimate moment with whomever they are with at the moment. They shouldn't keep themselves from drinking just because there are guys around. But since that's the kind of world we live in where something can happen at any time, I suppose in a sense you're right on the last part.
 
Patchisou Yutohru said:
I just have to reply to this... it's getting to me to a sense where I can't stop thinking about it...


You seem to be the type of guy that believes trying to hook up with a girl after they've had a few drinks and take advantage of their current status is a good thing when it isn't. In many situations, as I've learned in health time and time again over the years, this can be counted as rape seeing as how the woman wouldn't be able to think clearly enough to make decisions for herself and giving consent to having an intimate moment with whomever they are with at the moment. They shouldn't keep themselves from drinking just because there are guys around. But since that's the kind of world we live in where something can happen at any time, I suppose in a sense you're right on the last part.
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1) I'm gay

2) I don't really drink

I'm just saying... girls need to realize their surroundings and take steps to ensure that they cannot be taken advantage of. If you are in a battlefield, would you really want to be intoxicated? Obviously a college party is not as life and death, but the point still stands to reason that if you have something to lose, or are in a situations that requires you to be sober, you shouldn't be drinking.

So if there's a risk of sex that you don't want I probably wouldn't drink.
 
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