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    We all have those questions in life that need to be answered, and as there is no place to ask those inportant questions here on this board I thought I would start something.
    I will accept any and all questions, if you wish to remain anonaymous Pm me your question and I will Answer it without your name provided.

    If you want to help Give advice Pm me and I will add you if you are qualified.

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    I don't have any problems right now so I guess I can help out too. Any questions.
     
    are u two good in dating advice? if so i need some help. okay i like two guys one online and one in real life. I like them both alot and so far i have been cheating on the both of them (well kinda but not really) and i feel guilty about it but i can't choose between them. the only reason i don't want to remain anoumous is cuz others might have the same question.
     
    Okay valid question.
    Go with the real life guy, in every case. Real life relationships are always alot better and last longer. You are not cheating if you have never met the guy?
    Other questions I need to ask before I can help you any furthur
    How old are these guys?
    have you met the internet guy before?
    Are you to really girl friend boyfriend becouse if you arnt then you are not cheating and can still keep your options open.
     
    It cant.
    Becouse if God did intervine yet we were givin free will it creates a paradox. We cannot make our own decisions if god is chooseing how everything will happen ,becouse if he is everywhere and allknowing then he knows what decision we will make and that is NOT free will.
    We have 2 possiblitys
    1.We are marinets ,god is making are decsions
    2.There is no god and we have free will
    3.SADM's theory of the universe that I need coffee to explain so I will return in the morning .
     
    SADM said:
    Okay valid question.
    Go with the real life guy, in every case. Real life relationships are always alot better and last longer. You are not cheating if you have never met the guy?
    Other questions I need to ask before I can help you any furthur
    How old are these guys?
    have you met the internet guy before?
    Are you to really girl friend boyfriend becouse if you arnt then you are not cheating and can still keep your options open.
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    one's 15, almost 16 while the other's 12. I haven't met the online guy b4 but we r planning to here soon. and yes we're bf and gf (with the both of the guys and me)
     
    It cant.
    Becouse if God did intervine yet we were givin free will it creates a paradox. We cannot make our own decisions if god is chooseing how everything will happen ,becouse if he is everywhere and allknowing then he knows what decision we will make and that is NOT free will.
    We have 2 possiblitys
    1.We are marinets ,god is making are decsions
    2.There is no god and we have free will
    3.SADM's theory of the universe that I need coffee to explain so I will return in the morning .
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    I really hate getting myself into this...


    Fourth possibility: God lets us do our thing, but intervenes when either: 1. He has a different ending in mind for the person involved, or 2. His Children pray.


    And don't go all 'I'm an Atheist, therefore there is no God' on me, I'm just giving you another possibility. SB
     
    SADM said:
    It cant.
    Becouse if God did intervine yet we were givin free will it creates a paradox. We cannot make our own decisions if god is chooseing how everything will happen ,becouse if he is everywhere and allknowing then he knows what decision we will make and that is NOT free will.
    We have 2 possiblitys
    1.We are marinets ,god is making are decsions
    2.There is no god and we have free will
    3.SADM's theory of the universe that I need coffee to explain so I will return in the morning .
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    Not always true. There is also predeterminism, and determinism.

    And even if there is a God, there is no such thing as free will because God has set parameters to free will, so in essence, it is not truely free.

    This is assuming there is a God.
     
    PHQ:Meet the online guy in person, and then proceded to choose from there sooner or later you are going to have to make a choice. Which one is 12 btw?

    SB:What religion are you just curious?,\
    Anyway you idea makes some since as a possibilty but if people pray for someone else, but that person does not whant them to and god interevenes that cannot be free will.

    The problem is is that humans dont have the capabilty to understand these questions that exist as we have no true way to proof the existence of any of our ideas.

    This thread should be stickied
     
    *grins* Two things:

    I am a bible-believing Christian(probably one of those 'dominionists').

    I agree that this should probably be stickied. SB
     
    punkhobbitqueen said:
    are u two good in dating advice? if so i need some help. okay i like two guys one online and one in real life. I like them both alot and so far i have been cheating on the both of them (well kinda but not really) and i feel guilty about it but i can't choose between them. the only reason i don't want to remain anoumous is cuz others might have the same question.
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    You should stick with the person you like the most and will care for you the most. You should never cheat on those you love. If you cheat on someone, you should dump them because deep down you don't really love them if you cheat on them. I hope you follow my advice. :chinese:
     
    SADM said:
    PHQ:Meet the online guy in person, and then proceded to choose from there sooner or later you are going to have to make a choice. Which one is 12 btw?

    The online one is 12. i know i have to choose but... i feel as if they both make me whole. I know i won't be able to meet the online dude for like 5 years...
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    Then go with the one you know becouse if you cant meet the guy online for 5 years then it is meaningless to keep believing that anything can ever come of it, you cannot kiss a computer screen.
     
    Go with the one you know in real-life. You never know what you're getting online.

    Not that I'm an expert or anything, but it's common knowledge people aren't always as nice (or even horrible) as they are over the internet. It'll all end in tears.
     
    Go with the one you feel is right. I met my GF on the internet almost a year ago, and we couldn't be happier. We plan to meet as soon as possible, and that will be about 2-3 years from now. I'm for internet relationships, because like mine, they can turn into so much more. Also, with internet relationships you can't lose the ones you love due to a move.
     
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