The pro community here isn't big, sure. But you don't need to be rude about it. Lots of people here are new to the TCG, myself included, but honestly you're just embarassing yourself by saying the things you're saying. If you think people are... whatever it is exactly you think they are and you don't like that, cope. Don't criticize.
Like with all decent trading card games, the learning curve to pokémon has a hump. You need to know what you're vying for, to be assured, if you want to build a deck that is going to stand a chance against anyone who knows what they're doing.
I'll only say that if you're anywhere near as poor a sportsman as you stand to be an amiable peer, you won't like it here much: and you might as well leave for all our sakes. =)