If you think Misty is the best female handled good, I can respect that but I don't think Misty is the best at all as she barely had goal-wise focus and did little about her goal. I don't understand how can anybody (I am not referring to you, I dunno if you also think that) say May is the worst when she actually had clear development both personality and goal wise talking. Likewise, everyone has an opinion so that's fine even if I disagree.
She's still ultimately better than May, though. And quite frankly, I thought she got a lot more character development, better one at that. I'll give you the goal bit, that's probably the one thing May has Misty beat in (though if they didn't try to keep Team Rocket, we definitely would have seen actual focus on Misty's goal). I'd comment that Misty actually had more of a developed goal than Ash and Brock in the original series, but that's neither here nor there.
To start with, May didn't hate Pokemon. I dunno how long this myth about May ''hating'' Pokemon will go on as in the official japanese version she said she disliked them which is not the same. There is no an universal law that says May had to have experience prior to her journey as she was a gym leader's daughter, besides this suits her very well as when she started her journey all what she wanted was to travel around the world so it wouldn't make sense whether she were experienced and wanted to to travel around. On the other hand I can agree May's dislike for Pokemon was contrived because they didn't bother to explain more about it.
Hate, dislike, it means the same thing overall for me. If she didn't like Pokémon in any way, she shouldn't even bother with Pokémon in the first place. I know I wouldn't if I even disliked Pokémon, let alone hated them. And as far as your point about May didn't have to have experience prior to her journey, while it's true that she didn't necessarily have to have experience actually battling with Pokémon prior to her journey, it's pretty obvious that she had to have at least some direct interaction and experience with the Pokémon her dad had since he was a gym leader, whether it be actually watching him fight challengers, or otherwise taking care of the Pokémon as they're family owned ultimately, like how Brock's family had to take care of the Pokémon they had alongside Brock himself as shown in AG. And for the record, there are a few examples of characters who travel without even their being implied to be trainers. Like, for example, Seymour the Scientist, or maybe some COTDs who clearly didn't have access to any Pokémon due to not using them, or hey, even Misty's sisters, as most if not all of their Pokémon were left in the gym during their "trips". So no, she didn't NEED to become a Pokémon Trainer to travel.
As for May starting trend, I also disagree. May clearly didn't care about Pokemon and she only wanted to ''become' trainer as an excuse to travel over the world but when she saw Ash and his dream to become Pokemon Master she began to question herself if there was actually something she could do as trainer but she didn't know what to do and it took her some episodes to decide her goal and then she decided she'd try participating in contests and through contests is how she starts to forge bonds with Pokemon and actually comes to like them as she trains hard for her first contests. This is was the true reason why Ash and May had a teacher-student relationship. If this is starting trend or not having development then lol.
Like I said, there were plenty of other characters in the series who travelled without even being trainers or bringing Pokémon along (Seymour the Scientist, that eccentric German scientist who studied Clefairy aliens, Misty's sisters, etc., etc.), so she didn't even NEED an excuse to travel the world, much less need to become a Pokémon Trainer to get that excuse.
And the trend I was referring to was this bit, actually:
https://pokebeach.com/2008/07/second-pokemon-interview-with-masamitsu-hidaka-many-interesting-points
What about the main cast on the show? Since he had talked about how they like to "switch them up," I explained to him [Masamitsu Hidaka] that many fans want Ash, Misty, and Brock reunited again together. But, he reaffirmed what he said in the previous interview and said it wasn't going to happen. I asked him what he meant in the previous interview about Pokemon Contests, and he said he just meant that characters like May have come back for a few episodes in Pokemon Contests, so Misty could come back too. He said, however, that Contests don't appear to be her thing, so if she were to come back, it would probably be to join Ash in a battle or to just meet them somewhere. So then I said, "Why can't you just ditch Brock, have Ash, have Misty, and then bring in a new boy? That would be switching up things instead of having a new girl." His following answers made me laugh my head off I had to pick it up off the floor and reattach it. He stated that they like to switch up the girls because it gives the boys some new eye candy every once in a while. He also said girls are more customizable and you can change their outfits, like when they are in their bathing suits (yes, he specifically said that). He also said Ken Sugimori designs a new girl with each generation and that gives them another excuse to switch the girl, though I reminded him that there is also a new boy with each generation too, and it wouldn't hurt to use them.
Like her, hate her, even you can't deny she ultimately started that crap about girl-swapping due to eye candy, which IS a negative about her, especially given her age being 10 years old. And bear in mind, this came directly from Masamitsu Hidaka's own words, and certainly explains why the writers gave her a chest that one would expect from a sixteen year old than an actual ten year old, or a few scenes of fanservice that were extremely inappropriate and crass for a children's show even by Japan's standards like in Brave the Wave.
May being allowed to persue her goal and doing it good enough it's what makes her to me one of the best well-written characters, that and the fact she got a good development personality-wise as well. As for May and Misty comparison you did about them bonding with their Pokemon, I won't argue about it since that's actually off-topic.
I still say that, pursuing their goals aside, Misty actually had far more actual development than May did (Misty attempted to gain her sisters respect, and that's the reason she even became a Gym Leader, and she ultimately succeeded before the eighth gym, and she also pursued her goal and even developed genuine camaraderie with Ash, matured to quite an extent, and there was even some development on her past and some of her quirks), but yes, I'll leave it at that, to avoid getting off topic (though to be fair, the bit about the Manaphy movie is technically on-topic due to it dealing strictly with May).
I don't usually bother to reply but I did because I wanted to say how I disagreed on your opinion about May, not the Misty related, which I disagree though. That said, I am done with this thread because you and I know very well we will agree to disagree in our opinions.
Fine by me.