Shining Raichu
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OK lol, firstly, posting a topic like this, I feel the need to announce that I am not a paedophile, nor do I condone any sexual acts involving children. However, my general dislike for children and my apathy regarding their welfare allows me to feel like I can be detached enough from this topic to objectively discuss it.
Now that that's out of the way, here goes:
We are living in a time where many different sexual orientations are becoming more socially acceptable, and rightly so. The message in society is slowly changing into that of sexuality being irrelevant, where it was once thought of as wrong or immoral to have homosexual thoughts (or even heterosexual ones outside of marriage, if you go back far enough). It is becoming the view of educated society that it is impossible to control who we are attracted to, and that that is OK.
So, how does paedophilia differ from this formula? Homosexual thoughts and feelings were once regarded as sick. So is it inherently wrong, or sick, to be attracted to children? Assuming that these feelings are never acted upon, is it hypocritical for us to judge a paedophile based solely on his or her sexual preference? Is it really an illness, or is it just another - albeit an incredibly unfortunate - sexual orientation?
Just to make absolutely sure that I am clear - this is not discussing whether it is wrong to engage in child pornography or in sexual acts involving children, because this is of course the case. This topic is discussing whether the thoughts alone are immoral when no children are harmed.
Now that that's out of the way, here goes:
We are living in a time where many different sexual orientations are becoming more socially acceptable, and rightly so. The message in society is slowly changing into that of sexuality being irrelevant, where it was once thought of as wrong or immoral to have homosexual thoughts (or even heterosexual ones outside of marriage, if you go back far enough). It is becoming the view of educated society that it is impossible to control who we are attracted to, and that that is OK.
So, how does paedophilia differ from this formula? Homosexual thoughts and feelings were once regarded as sick. So is it inherently wrong, or sick, to be attracted to children? Assuming that these feelings are never acted upon, is it hypocritical for us to judge a paedophile based solely on his or her sexual preference? Is it really an illness, or is it just another - albeit an incredibly unfortunate - sexual orientation?
Just to make absolutely sure that I am clear - this is not discussing whether it is wrong to engage in child pornography or in sexual acts involving children, because this is of course the case. This topic is discussing whether the thoughts alone are immoral when no children are harmed.