*sighs* This is like dejavou all over again for me. In the past, in SPP, I have had many pair ups. But those were all just for fun, and the guys who were with me knew that. And when we went our separate ways, they were fine with it, and we still stayed good pals. But then...along came Maikou. *cringes* I told him, since he asked me to pair up, that if I agreed to pairing up, he'd have to agree that this would all be for fun. He did agree that our pair up would be just for fun and nothing serious.
This is where the problems began. First, I had put in my sig that we were paired, but then, I wanted to change my sig a little later on, so I dellted everything in my sig. Now, after being paired, Maikou's first PM to me was this:
"Where's your sig?!?!! I thought we were paired up!!! Am I not good enough for you?? Where's the part that says we are paired up?!"
I tried to tell him that all I was doing was fixing my sig, and that I'd put that we were paired back in my sig once I had an outline for my signature. He settled down a bit after that.
Now, awhile after, I hadn't been on much, and once I came back on after an absence for about a week or so, here comes Maikou's second PM:
"Where were you, Kelsey? You haven't been on, did you put me on ignore??! What's the matter with you?!"
*sighs* I then told him I was just off the computer for about a week, afterall I do have a life. XD He again calmed down...until I accidentally removed the banner I asked him to make for me from my sig. He EXPLODED!
"Where's the banner I made for you!!!!! I worked so hard on it, just for you, and you just take it out?!? Put it back in, PLEASE!"
I tried again to tell him that I accidentally deleted his banner, and that I was going to put it back in, but he kept on with the yelling.
I then put him instantly on ignore, and didn't speak to him for about two weeks or so. then, when I figured he was done trying to kill me through PM's, I PM'd him, saying it was over. I just couldn't be with a guy who would yell at me all the time for silly little things. He never once, not ONCE did he PM me, asking how I was, or that he liked being paired with me. It felt like WW2! So, I believe he is repaired, and I wish the young girl he is paired with the best of luck. -_-;;;
Soooo, there's my story. It contrats with what's been going on in the sense that no one should be so mad over an online love. I know that I stated that I took my relationship with Matt seriously, and I do. But it's not worth killing your pair up over. ;;;>> Long story short. Don't turn into a Maikou. XD
~Kelsey
