Well, a lot of those people get fooled and have a nature brought out of them that otherwise wouldn't be there.
In real life, there is next to nil chance a 13-year-old will walk up to a 25-year-old and start talking sexually with them. Now, if a 13-year-old is in front of a computer, the screen barrier gives them a confidence that yes, they might start doing that for jokes, but they're doing it intentionally. 13-year-olds shouldn't be in those chatrooms anyway, and parents should be teaching their 13-year-old etiquette and a little self-respect (since I'm sure, if they're talking about sexual stuff, she's not thinking highly of her body at that moment.)
The 18-year-olds who pose as 15 or 13 or w/e-year-old girls are baiting a nature that might not even exist. They're encouraging it, and they're the ones who generally start the inappropriate sexual slander with the people online. They provoke it. It should be them who's charged with provokation.
I'm sure some of the people who they caught for wanting to have sex with a child weren't actually going to do anything, and if they were, they were under the impression the kid was mature enough because of the way they were talking. No child should be talking about oral sex or w/e, but the people at Dateline NBC were doing so to bait people. If a child is talking seriously about these things on line, you can fool adults into thinking it's safe. They bring a condom because they have been fooled by these television shows into thinking that they were talking to an aware girl/boy.
After all, from what most PC members here think (so I've understood), 13-year-olds are well mature for their age and knowing about sex, condoms, etc. is normal for that age. Adults would be fooled into thinking that it's appropriate then.
I don't agree with their manner of doing this, no. The men who come without a condom should be charged for recklessness, not pedophilia. They weren't going to have sex, which was proven when they didn't bring a condom. The men who bring condoms should be charged with both "reus" in the law (actus and whatever the other thing is - mea or something) for attempting to do so - but having not done so protects them from the charge of attempted sex with a minor.
The men and women with families who mess around online should be slapped in the head. Wtf are you doing? lol These are the real retards.
I do not approve of any adult visiting a child of 13 years they spoke to online. Just to clarify. This is wrong, irresponsible, and reckless. A 19-year-old who visits a 15-year-old, though, shouldn't be counted as wrong since, sure, he's technically an adult, but their ages are so close together :| A 22/23-year-old who visits a 16-year-old isn't an issue either.
The main thing is that they visit without the parents around, which instantly lands a charge for recklessness. They had some intention and knowledge, but didn't commit an act, so the charge can't be labeled further. Or shouldn't, at least.
I can see what Dateline NBC and similar shows are trying to show that their doing (namely, saving tweens who are "mature" by PC standards anyway from adults), but they just want to exploit humans and get good ratings in the end :| I've seen 19-year-olds cuffed for visiting 15-year-old baits without condoms (who were really 18, meh). That's just wrong. The only time they should be cuffing is if the age difference is extreme and if they actually brought a condom with them. No condom? No actus reus. You can't charge further than recklessness without it.
That was kinda long. Anyway, as long as the age difference isn't gigantic (more than nine years), they don't bring a condom, and their parents are around, I don't see an issue. These shows specifically bait for when their parents aren't there, though. They also encourage these people to bring them things - condoms, sex toys, candy, chocolate, flowers, McDonald's. They're ****ing around with them and trying to turn non-pedophiles into pedophiles to plaster them on television.
If that makes sense.
Again, an adult over over 24 shouldn't be visiting anyone under 18, regardless parental supervision. Under 24? Then parent supervision, yeah. No issues with that.