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lol, guys i can only take on one apprentice at a time XD -ressee is my apprentice ^^

Eva, it's great that you want her to stay loyal to her bf, so be proud ^^
 
I have a problem with my online boyfriend. Maybe you will tell me, what I should do?

He is very nice to me and we talk almost every day. Problem is, he is lying to me. He is not a loyal friend. He likes another girls and talks with them every day (you know, what I mean). I asked him yesterday; does he talk with one his friend (a girl), he said "no", but today I discovered- it was a lie.
Maybe I`m very jealous, but I think, he should be honest. I don`t trust him.
 
Crystal Mew said:
I have a problem with my online boyfriend. Maybe you will tell me, what I should do?

He is very nice to me and we talk almost every day. Problem is, he is lying to me. He is not a loyal friend. He likes another girls and talks with them every day (you know, what I mean). I asked him yesterday; does he talk with one his friend (a girl), he said "no", but today I discovered- it was a lie.
Maybe I`m very jealous, but I think, he should be honest. I don`t trust him.
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When you say you found out he was lying, did he actually tell you? or are you just relying on your gut feelings?
Hmm..it's very difficult to judge truth from lies, but I would suggest asking who the girl is, and possibly asking her? Does she know the two of you are paired? You could then PM her, but just act casual, and casually ask if she's interested in him. If he won't tell you who she is, then I would just again try to be casual. Explain that it's only pokecommunity pairing, so if he's not happy he may as well say. When you dont put too much pressure on someone, and play down the situation, you're more likely to find out more information. When people feel pressured, they become defensive.
If you have more questions to do with this, go ahead mew ^^
 
Claire, i seem to have a problem. Well you see...
I think its private, but.. :'(
Anyways I'll pm you about it.
 
Actaully...
theres this girl I like, and she talks to me and all, but whenever ibring the pint of inviting her she says maybe. Or just ignores me. Help!
 
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When you say you found out he was lying, did he actually tell you? or are you just relying on your gut feelings?
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He told me once.
Hmm..it's very difficult to judge truth from lies, but I would suggest asking who the girl is, and possibly asking her? Does she know the two of you are paired? You could then PM her, but just act casual, and casually ask if she's interested in him. If he won't tell you who she is, then I would just again try to be casual. Explain that it's only pokecommunity pairing, so if he's not happy he may as well say. When you dont put too much pressure on someone, and play down the situation, you're more likely to find out more information. When people feel pressured, they become defensive.
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I know who she is. Honestly, he talks with two girls. One likes him as a friend but she is very pretty and he...uhh...just likes pretty girls, and second has a crush on him. I discovered, he talks with that first one, but something tells he is with that second one also.

I can`t tell him, which one girl he should talk, but I don`t like lies. He should be honest with me.

We are not paired here. I`m a new Member :)
 
Hmm..personally, i would ask him about his feelings towards these girls one more time. If he still denies any feelings for either, then it may be worth finding a new pair ^^ we have a lot of single guys on our pair-up thread ;)
That'll save you the nights of worrying about what's going on, and you can find someone who is only interested in you mew
 
Ok i just want to get this out realy. I don't need a adivce i just want to get it of my chest.

Ok my bf had kinda diss me the last week. He said he be on and all. I know i should not be up set or any thing. (not been toghether long). Though he know how my last relashinship is and to do this realy hurts.
On of my friend say he loves me but he love this other girl too. I love him but told him to go with his heart and choose the best for him. I even told him falt out to go with the other girl. He does not want to hurt me. I know hurt but in the end best for him to choose the right noe you know.
Now i find out my new bust budd had a crush on mr for a long time and say he in lvoe with me. I have a crush on him realy.
I'm haveing a break down but im getting through it. I hope every thing works out realy.... i'm preay/begging here.
Ok plz don't comment i just need to get though off my chest.
*walks away stamering and in full break down/shock
 

Hope I'm not intruding...I just wanted to tell you not to worry Cassie, everything's fine. I'm back now and I've tossed aside what was bothering me. I probably won't use this section much...not that I wouldn't want to...but on the account that I don't talk about my problelms much. Just not me...
 
Well, I wanna take her to hang out at the park and then have dinner, but shes like avoiding me in the sense of a date. She talks to me and all, but no luck. What can I do for her to say yes? Oh great Guru!
 
XD
hmm..i would suggest that you just be honest and tell her that you'd like to get to know her better..and if she still doesnt take the hint, just admit that ur interested in her, or do some kind of romantic gesture ^^
if she's still avoiding, then just relax off of her a little..maybe she just needs some time, or doesnt want a relationship with anyone
if you need more options, then feel free to ask ^^
 
How come boys in real life hate me so much?
I repel boys.
 
Okay here is a tough one for you:

How do you tell a guy off without making him hate you for the rest of his little life and still be buddies with 'em. XD This guy is such a turd...you would think he would GET IT in his head by now that I'm not intrested at ALL.
 
Dubbs, yeah, that can sometimes be difficult with guys ^^;
if you want to stay friends, you could say ur friendship is more important, and you dont want to risk losing him as a friend, and that just because ur good friends doesnt mean that you'll work well in a relationship etc etc

Kiri, why dont you go thru how (or whether) you approach a guy, if you'd like some tips ^^
 
Thanks. I'll back off for now. I think maybe if she sees me with another girl. I wonder...
 
ressee..beware of that technique..that may work the wrong way..maybe she's a little interested, but if she sees you with someone else, she may back off to give you and this new girl some room
 
What do you mean?
Doesn't it always work?
 
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